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Gramps

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Some of you may remember him from our little get together back in May when we went to SW Wisconsin. He was the big guy on the Road King....he told me after that day that riding with a bunch of ST bikes, and trying to keep up, was the most fun he'd ever had. Here's briefly what happened:

Mark, my close friend & riding partner & I headed to Colorado for our annual summer trip.

We left Denver on Saturday, June 28 around 11AM & made it to a ski lodge for the night near the summit of Monarch pass on Hwy. 50...we had a great first day. The next day we got an early start & made our way west to Blue Mesa Reservoir then headed south on State Hwy. 149 to South Fork to Hwy. 160, turned west for Durango. About 20 miles on 149 we reached the summit of Wolf Creek Pass & began our descent. We were about 1/2 mile from the summit when a deer came across the 2 lanes of oncoming traffic, which neither of us saw, on a flat out run. The deer brushed the back of my bike & I immediately looked in my right rear view mirror to make sure Mark, on his Road King, had also stayed clear. He didn't, he hit the deer broadside doing about 60 mph. His bike flipped & he came off hard impacting the back of his head on the pavement. He chose not to wear a helmet. I believe the the reason he didn't see it is because he wasn't looking ahead, he was changing lanes & looking back to check his blind spot. It is a 4 lane highway & I was in the lane closet to the center line at the time & Mark was about 20 yards behind me moving into the right lane when he hit the deer. He was choppered out to Farmington, NM where he underwent surgery to relieve the building pressure of his swelling brain. He never did regain consciousness & was pronounced brain dead on Wed. July 2nd. I was with him at his side till then along with his family. I was sent this article , the accident happened on Sunday the 29th not Saturday.

I shot this video the morning before the accident go up & over Monarch Pass. (make sure to view it in high quality)

It's been a sad couple of weeks but things are slowly getting better.

Wear those helmets people, they can make a difference.

 
Wear those helmets people, they can make a difference.
amen
I cant imagine ever riding without a helmet. Its really sad to hear about another person getting killed by a deer; sorry Gramps. it is such a problem in these parts I really want to try to get some legislation written to increasing the hunting of deer.

 
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Wow Gramp, I'm feeling much sorrow. I am very sad to hear of your friend.

 
I'm sorry about your loss. Thanks for sharing.

The Chief of Police in a town about 9 miles from here went on a ride to the west in summer 06. As soon as they got to a place where the helmets could come off, off they came. In Nevada one morning he was "ride leader" (maybe that's a Harley thing), and he was pointing to something that he wanted the folks behind him to see. One hand off the bar, and for whatever reason , he lost control. No helmet. Serious head injuries. It took a few months for him to recover enough to make it back home. Lots of benefits held for him and his family. The town held his job for him with the hope he would recover enough to resume normal duties. Didn't happen. So the job was up for interviews a few months back. Not so old to be called Gramps. Normal takes on a new definition for the whole family.

 
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RIP Mark - so sorry for your loss Gramps.

While with the insurance adjuster yesterday over my deer strike, he told me about another local who hit two deer last week, this resulted in both his legs and his sternum being broken - he's still in the hospital and his bike is a w/o.

The GPS that I use is the first attention-distracting device I've ever added to any bike I've ridden - but not much moreso than trying to read a paper map in the top of my tank bag. How the hell people listen to stereos, talk on their CB's, use their cellphones etc. without running off the road is beyond me... Keep your heads-up peeps - there are way too many of these threads lately.

Dave (aka Gramps to my 2 grandchildren)

 
:( A truly regretable and sobering incident. It is a reminder of how fragile is this thing we have called life. Enjoy it today...and tomorrow if you have tomorrow.

Ed

 
Sorry for your loss...can't imagine being in your shoes at the accident scene. :(
Helmets: Wear 'em if you got 'em. :clapping:
My thoughts exactly. Not something I'd want to see.

And as a reminder to all who do wear helmets, make sure the strap is snugged up.

A friend of mine lost his son to a head injury because the helmet he WAS wearing came off.

 
It's really, really difficult to read these stories... and vital to do so. The lessons are just too valuable not to share.

Very sorry for your loss and pain.

Ride safe, good luck.

 
!!!! I remember us talking that very day about him not wearing a lid. Dude could navigate that Road Hog too. Sorry to hear of it Gramps, he was a nice guy. Goes to show one just never knows whats around the next corner, metaphysically speaking.

 
Marc,

When you called me from Colorado, I was dumbfounded (still am).

As you know, it was an honor to meet and start to get to know Mark.

Thanks for the introductions.

We never know which direction life is going to take us.

One things for sure, this thing called TRAGEDY does not seem to discriminate.

Young nor old alike, all it leaves behind is unbearable pain in its wake.

My thoughts and prayers are (still) with you, Mark's Wife and young Son.

Your video tribute is an awesome likeness of the motorcycling times you spent with Mark.

How lucky your are to have it.. Thanks for sharing it.

Though, I am sure it hardly scratches the surface on your 20+ year friendship.

Godspeed to Mark,

Matt

 
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