Ray,
I'm an ER nurse and have experience in ICU and Recovery Room. Certainly not a neurologist, but damn sure seen enough to know that this was indeed a minor stroke, as Fred pointed out, and you got lucky. The keys here that you need to know are that the possibilties of having another stroke is higher, your doctor(s) need to try and determine how you developed the clot (where it originated), and you'll need to possibly stay on blood thinners for quite some time, maybe not necessarily Coumadin but some other anti-platelate aggragate - wether it be aspirin, Plavix, or something else. Yes, there are not only side effects and risks associated with taking Coumadin, but the risk of having another potentially more serious or even fatal stroke outweighs the reasons NOT to take it. All medicines have side effects and risks. . . even Tylenol.
At risk of sounding like a damned advertisement - Bustanut, you'd know from those Viagra commercials- your doctor knows what's best. However, docs are just like motorcycle mechanics....... just because they can pass the curriculum don't mean ****...... doesn't make 'em good ones! So, with that said, I'd recommend you find an experienced, well-known, and "popular" neurologist. Best way is by word of mouth, just like a mechanic. Ask those in your community, friends, coworkers, everybody if they have any knowledge of good ones. If you keep hearing the same name over and over, I bet you got a good one. Even still, you always have the right to a second opinion.
My advice is to stay on the Coumadin and other prescribed meds until you are happy with what they are telling you. Educate yourself as much as possible, eat well, consult your doctor(s) about an exercise program even if you already do exercise routinely, and don't be afraid to talk to your doctors or even question them.
Hope this helps a little, could go on but don't want to muddy the water any further. If you have specific questions, feel free to PM, but remember that any and all advice here on this or any other forum, is just that.... advice. And don't do anything anybody tells you to without first asking your doctor(s).
Good luck to you and glad to hear that you're OK.