My first real job, back shortly after I got out of college in 1980, was for Kaiser Engineers in Oakland (that company doesn't exist anymore). I figured my career would be like my dad's generation: work for a company for 30 years, then retire with a pension. Well, I soon realized this was not my father's career world when I saw men (the engineers were all men) getting laid off after 30 years with the company.
I've been laid off several times in my career owing to mergers and downsizing, etc. I wouldn't wish getting laid off on my worst enemy. As men who often define ourselves by our work, and who are often the principal bread winners of the family, we take being laid off to heart: As an indication that we are not that good at what we define ourselves as (not true, but it's that nagging &^%$# voice in our heads that keeps saying it. BTW, re. those voices in our heads that tell us we're no good: They lie!) Most of all we feel that we have let our family down.
The worst part about getting laid off is no one says "Sorry it had to be this way. But thank you for your service." Companies are very bad at hiring, and equally bad at laying people off.
As my kids embark on their own careers, I tell them there are two main ways to get a job: Work for an entrepreneur, or be one. Each has its advantages and disadvantages. If you work for an entrepreneur you get a steady paycheck and relatively steady hours; but you are at the whim of the employer. If you are an entrepreneur, you are your own boss making your own hours, but those hours are long, the pay unsteady (at first), and you may soon be unemployed again....
But take heart in knowing it's the best economy, and the lowest unemployment, since 2008. You will land on your feet. It just takes time and effort. What I always did was figure that when I was between jobs my job was to get a job. So I got up at 6:30, showered, dressed, had breakfast, then hit job search mode till noon. Broke for lunch, then worked till 5 and quit for the day. Took weekends off. Effort yields results.
PM me if you'd like advice on networking, informational interviews, resume design, and how to use Linkedin....
Good luck!
Hans