Mine is way to soft, even for solo. Solo riding seems best with 4-5 clicks of preload in it, and that's before loading for a trip. I had it maxed out for WFO-4. I think I'll just suck it up and live with it for now, or maybe I'll order the next stiffer spring and change it out over the winter. The first trip I took with the new shock, the tire wore through the mudflap on the rear fender (Bye-bye, reflector!) Before I cranked up the pre-load, my right side Holeshot had rubbed a small blemish on the right side of the swing-arm. I don't think that means I want it set "too stiff".
I may just get the life out of this shock and go with another brand. I wouldn't recommend the settings received from Wilber's USA. Skyway is right when he says he thinks they are at least one spring size too soft. I gave them specs for riding 2-up, thankfully, I don't