If you were to go riding with the BMW or Goldwing club, which would you choose to take?
Since you dind't ask me, let me answer.
BMWs:
Since most of the BMW riders I know ride very loosely associated groups where people know the destination and may keep each other in sight, I wouldn't have a problem with either the FJR on Conk14 except for once I got to the gathering and "those people" (you know which ones) decided you hadn't spent enough on your bike/gear/espresso machine.
Goldwings:
After more than 10 years and 3 different Gold Wing Designs, I moved to the '03 FJR. I continued to ride with my Chapter for some time afterwards. At one time I was on 2 different CD staffs, was the original Webmaster, was a Master Tour Rider in their safety program, did ERCs every other year, etc. That's just to let you know it wasn't a casual association.
When I got the FJR it was like a light switch. There were people who I had considered close friends for years who instantly went "cold". On the riding side, I also found the close formation riding more constricting and the wide variety of skills either risky or a point for driving down the entire ride to the lowest common denominator. Part of that had to do with a CD change that brought in a "standard" GWRRA mindset to the chapter that had, in previous years, been something the Chapter had worked to avoid (exclusionary, no longer divided large rides into smaller groups based on fast/medium/slow preferences, etc.).
Where's this ramble going? What's the point of above?
I'd not ride either bike with most Wingsters. It will frustrate them and bore you.
Sport Bike Riders:
Regardless of what bike I owned, borrowed, or rented, I'd not ride with the typical sport bike group. Far too much **** measuring, 99+% riding on public roads, jockeying for position, etc. for me. The risks are far too high for my comfort. I'd find where they're going and be there to hang out if I so wanted.