Good post! I love thoughtful, analytical posts, or conversations, like this.
You are searching for the differences and maybe you have found one in ES. I'm a range guy....ranges of ES, ranges of risk, etc. I think for me there is also a range of adrennelin junkiness, need for speed, etc. I like the adrennelin rush that riding a motorcycle provides. I don't necessarily mean the rush of taking extreme chances, either. There is a low end (on the range) rush just by entering traffic. For me anyhow. Others have ridden so long I'm sure to get any small blip on the rush-o-meter they need to do more than get going into rush (pun not exactly intended but not unwelcomed) hour traffic. No judgement here.
Point is, I believe many riders need more speed and may take more chances than I need to just to get that old feeling back. There is definitely a deminishing return with this rush. The rush is satisfying, fun, gives that feeling of power when we do emerge at the end "victorious." Maybe this is also one of the differrences between you and the unfortunate rider.
Stuff is going to happen to some regardless of how much control they keep on their own rush pursuit. For me, it is nice to have a bit of it to enjoy the ride and to remind myself that I'm alive. Same reason I hit the backcountry or climb a peak in the Rockies. I'm sure others have reached the point that they may need to hit the track to satisfy the rush.
I'd be interested in hearing your thoughts on this.
Lee
You hit the nail on the head about the adrenaline rush. When younger, I particiapted in all sorts of sports and activies that were exhilarating...snow skiing, water skiing, dirt and quad riding, team sports, tennis, you name it, I plaed it. Gradually, as I got older, Istopped playing or participating and experienced fewer and fewer moments of exhilaration. Then, two age-inappropriate experiences made me realize I needed to get involved in something exhilarating.
The first experience was slick track racing with my 4-year old granddaughter. The second was tubing. I probably hold the record as the oldest tuber on the Delta, but it produced a rush that lasted for days. I realized I missed the exhilaration that comes from physical challenge and danger. I consciusly began to explore what I could do to introduce more exhilaration into my life.
After a 20 year hiatus from motorsports, my brother and sister-in-law took up riding street bikes. My husband, MG, an old dirt bike rider, decided he wanted to ride too. He soon bought a Road King. I was hesitant at age 58 to get back into motorcycles--having not ridden at all since 1993, and with having been mainly a dirt bike rider at that. I am not the passenger type so MG was anxious for me to do something that got me excited about riding.
I agreed to take the MSF course to see if I could even ride anymore. About 20 minutes into the first day of class, I knew I was going to be getting a bike.
My mother worries constantly about all of us senior citizens riding. She recently asked me for the umpteenth time, "Why?" I explained it's the exhilaration factor. There is such an inherent risk factor built into motorcycling, that just riding out of the driveway provides a rush. It's hard for physical non-risktakers like my mother to relate.
I recently went to a seminar that addressed what it took to "feel alive"--one of the necessary components is exhilaration. Everyone needs exhilaration, some people like my mother get it by keeping continual emotional turmoil into their lives, others like me get it from physical risk. Who is to say which is more or less dangerous?