Most people walk through this life thinking, "If only...." and when they see us with our FJRs this is their way of starting a conversation rather than actually saying to themselves, "I could be riding a motorcycle like that and enjoying my life, if only...."
So being a rather empathetic sort of person, I always help them sort through their issues by telling them, "Its a Yamaha FJR," then regaling them with how I enjoy riding the Sierras or The Coast with friends, visiting relatives all over CA and my travels through the West on group rides or to the various WFOs, etc.
By then, with a far-away look in their eyes, they wished they'd never begun the conversation...or...perhaps I have watered the seeds of "If only" that are growing in their own souls.
So, when you've got time on your hands, you get smart and philosphical, while I'm finding silly pictures to post
I definitely agree with you. So many times, I've been approached by people wanting to start a conversation about the bike. It's usually smart to ignore the first thing that comes out of their mouth, for example:
1. Wow. Is that yours?
2. Do you ride it all by yourself?
3. Did you ride it all the way here?
4. Isn't that bike too big for you?
5. Isn't it dangerous to ride a bike like that?
6. Isn't that cool that you have matching bikes. (03 FJR and 07 BMW K1200S)
I've learned that inane comments like these are made by mouth, while brain is waiting to get into gear. The person is interested, and wants to get into a conversation with you. By the big smile, and positive vibe there is definitely admiration and sometimes polite envy. Here are you, out in the wind on a super cool bike, having all kinds of fun, while they are stopping at the gas station while doing other errands. (So are you, but you're taking the long way round).
At first, I perceived the DA comments to be insulting but I've now gotten a little smarter and take them for what they are. If I respond politely, with smiles and enthusiasm then I am an ambassador for motorcyclists everywhere.
Jill