I have a tainted view of VA, but I won't let that keep the rally away. The western tip of VA plants you within striking distance of many highlights.
I like the idea of SW Virginia, Wytheville, Roanoke, somewhere in that area. VA-16, Burkes Garden, The Snake, VA-58, Blue Ridge, SE West Virginia . . . all in striking distance, plenty of major roads to get you there quickly. I'm overdue.
I agree with your opinion of Virginia. I'd much rather stay in West Virginia, even as far west as Parkersburg as suggested above, than Virginia. I am dependent on my radar detector.
FWIW, there is a hotel in Elkins that is inexpensive and very motorcycle friendly.
The Iron Road Inn is across the street from the Super 8 on 219. It is about equal to the Super 8 in quality, offers a discount if you arrive by motorcycle. I don't think there is a banquet room but there is a large lounge that may serve.
Also, the Holiday Inn Express in Elkins offers a motorcycle discount and is a much nicer hotel, but costs around 100 per night.
Is it obvious yet that I like riding in WV?