So I got a couple of things today:
1st was a phone call from Brian at Atomic. He had seen this thread, done some looking, and called me about our over-all concerns about customer service and my concern about the size of the XL jacket. He apologized that I had to try more than once to get a hold of anyone and let me know that if there were any issues, they would take the jacket back. I was very impressed and really appreciated the call. Made it feel like he gave a crap and wants customers to be happy. They cruise the forums, so they are cognizant of what gets said about them. I think that's just good business practice.
2nd was the jacket. It fit perfect. I am very happy with it, and think it will become a new favorite. The liner is really thick, and the neck closures are all soft and will be more windproof than the ones in my Transition 2. I'll probably take the liner out and use the jacket for the North Carolina camping trip in May, so after that trip I will know for sure. I didn't take it out all the way, but I'm under the impression that the liner can be worn separately, without the jacket.
They have 3 red ones left in Large...We all know I'm not affiliated in any way, but if you want a great deal on a good jacket and good service, this is definately one of the places to check out.