First Drop - Why don't I feel bad?

[fsubetcha]

It happened the first time yesterday. There's always a first. Help me to understand why I don't feel too bad about it.

My 07 dropped in the parking lot. I wasn't in the saddle. My 22 year old Son was. He was home on leave from the Navy. Next month he goes to Afghanistan.

The scratches on the mirror and the scuffs on the V-Strom hand guard will bug me for sure, but I'm not mad. (Luckily the side cases were off). Yep I knew going in that it might fall over. The FJR is the biggest bike he's ridden and with twitchy throttle as well.

Somehow it was more important to me that he knew I trusted him with my baby and would always love and support him no matter what happened.

I'm going to leave the damage un-repaired. Every time I see it, I'll be reminded of him and the precious little time we've had together. I'm proud of that kid.

btw- If my Wife would have dropped it I'd have to divorce her.

 

[NSrider]

It happened the first time yesterday. There's always a first. Help me to understand why I don't feel too bad about it.
My 07 dropped in the parking lot. I wasn't in the saddle. My 22 year old Son was. He was home on leave from the Navy. Next month he goes to Afghanistan.

The scratches on the mirror and the scuffs on the V-Strom hand guard will bug me for sure, but I'm not mad. (Luckily the side cases were off). Yep I knew going in that it might fall over. The FJR is the biggest bike he's ridden and with twitchy throttle as well.

Somehow it was more important to me that he knew I trusted him with my baby and would always love and support him no matter what happened.

I'm going to leave the damage un-repaired. Every time I see it, I'll be reminded of him and the precious little time we've had together. I'm proud of that kid.

btw- If my Wife would have dropped it I'd have to divorce her.

There are lots of things in this world that are more important than metal and plastic. Hope your son returns safe and sound.

 

[Mackeroni]

Somehow it was more important to me that he knew I trusted him with my baby and would always love and support him no matter what happened.

My son dropped by FZ1 in the drive once. As mad as I get with myself when I do that, it was easy to accept his mistake. I have been telling other parents for years that we should celebrate our children's mistakes, because they learn a valuable lesson from every single one...a lesson they cannot learn as well in any other way.

Godspeed and protect your son in his service to our country!

 

[sullivan]

Think of it as a special tatoo with your child's name.

I'd feel the same as you.

 

[Hutchuf]

I think I got a little teary eyed reading your post. Good for you and thanks for the reminder, as much as we all love our bikes we have to remember that they are material and can be replaced...unlike family. I hope I can show the same patience when the time comes for me.

 

[Mizz Bustanut]

Help me to understand why I don't feel too bad about it.

Because you're a proud dad that just had another opportunity to teach your child a lesson without feeling like a harda$$ parent but more like a buddy. And without reallizing it, he gave you something to smile about until he returns. A special moment for both of you.

Tell him we thank him for his service and please return safe and sound.

k:

 

[cota95]

Help me to understand why I don't feel too bad about it.

Because you're a proud dad that just had another opportunity to teach your child a lesson without feeling like a harda$$ parent but more like a buddy. And without reallizing it, he gave you something to smile about until he returns. A special moment for both of you.

Tell him we thank him for his service and please return safe and sound.

k:

+100

 

[Kevin Daly]

Hey dad sorry about the bike:

No problem son, I am just glad your alive, I am glad you are my son.

Dude, under your families circumstances, the circumstance that so many US families are in, who cares about a freakin bike.

PS thats Old Michaels bike click here for the story

 

[weekend rider]

Hey K. D. It is kind of like the movie Cool Hand Luke and the warden says, you gotta to get your mind right , I beieve you have your mind and heart right when it comes to family and scratches on a motorcycle.. :bike:

 

[RonBB]

I'm going to leave the damage un-repaired.

When I first started driving the car I managed to get in a minor fender bender with my Dad's second car & the one he usually drove. No harsh words or punishement. He didn't have it repaired. Worst punishment I could ever have had. Felt bad for years-everytime I saw that fender. Fix the bike later for both of your sakes after he leaves. You'll both feel better. Best of luck & sorry about the drop.

 

[TechJunkie]

I'm going to leave the damage un-repaired.

When I first started driving the car I managed to get in a minor fender bender with my Dad's second car & the one he usually drove. No harsh words or punishement. He didn't have it repaired. Worst punishment I could ever have had. Felt bad for years-everytime I saw that fender. Fix the bike later for both of your sakes after he leaves. You'll both feel better. Best of luck & sorry about the drop.

Great attitude and way to look at your son's time back home. I agree you should fix it once he is back for good. Kind of like starting fresh once he is out of harms way.

Thank your son for me for his service and sacrifice for our country and Gods protection and speed in his return.

 

[garauld]

As a favor to you and your son for his service, I'll repaint the mirror for free when you decide the time is right... :thumbsup:

 

[Malve]

I just threw up a little in my mouth from your story. It makes me sick to hear your BS. Obviously you can't afford to fix the bike and because your son is a reflection of you, you are embarrassed and just running with the "proud" story to save face. Gerauld (who nobody likes and doesn't do good work) is obviously the only other one who sees your lies and has offered to do the work for free to call you on your lies. And for the record, my only other option to this stance is to get all choked up like every one else, and I'm not goin there today.

 

[Kevin Daly]

Hey K. D. It is kind of like the movie Cool Hand Luke and the warden says, you gotta to get your mind right , I beieve you have your mind and heart right when it comes to family and scratches on a motorcycle.. :bike:

why thanks :yahoo:

 

[petercwelch]

I got it in reverse. I dropped my son's new R1 a couple of years ago with minor damage to the fairing. I fixed it like new. He went to Iraq, just got back, is now in Hawaii and about to learn to fly helicopters for the army. I miss riding with him but hope to be able to one of these days. I have dropped my FJR twice at driveway. Felt like a fool each time and am now VERY careful, moving or stopping . Hope your son is and will be fine.

 

[MojaveFJR]

Thank you son for his service and dedication to his family, friends and country.

Wish him a safe trip and godspeed for the trip home.

 

[Bustanut joker]

I just threw up a little in my mouth from your story. It makes me sick to hear your BS. Obviously you can't afford to fix the bike and because your son is a reflection of you, you are embarrassed and just running with the "proud" story to save face. Gerauld (who nobody likes and doesn't do good work) is obviously the only other one who sees your lies and has offered to do the work for free to call you on your lies. And for the record, my only other option to this stance is to get all choked up like every one else, and I'm not goin there today.

What the *** Malve??? You PWI? or did you forget a few :blink: :huh: ? I didn't see where his post would elicit that type of response....

Tell me yer jokin'

:jester:

 

[odot]

Damnit.........fridays more then two days away....................

 

[fjrchooser]

Uh-oh, game over. Gotta know Armegedeon is right around the corner when Odot starts following the rulz ! :lol: