I have once experienced this exact same problem on my '07, so I know the pain and horror you're feeling. From memory, my guess as to what had happened was similar to your conclusions so I figured it's already f#cked in which case I have nothing to lose by trying to free it up so I used a heat gun to warm up the outer tube in the area covering the top two bushes and worked on pushing the inner tube back in. I locked the bottom of the outer tube in a vice (with soft jaws) to provide some more stability...
Eventually the inner tube went back in and after heating up that section again I was able to split them up in the usual way. Of all the previous times I've done this job on my forks this was the first time they got stuck like that, hence why I thought I broke something.
Good luck with your job and hope it works out as well for you as it did for me.