Bikerskier, I completely agree. I practiced some low speed maneuvering before my son and I went on a 200 mile trip (I know that's not a long trip, but for me it was!) and it was AMAZING how much better I felt about the bike, my control of the bike, and how much more I actually enjoyed the trip instead of constantly worrying about the "what if". I completely understand that its a perishable skill, and I need to continue practicing, along with taking the advanced course.
I guess what I was trying to say was that it was incredible how much even a little bit of brushing up impacted my ride yesterday. There were a couple of places where i had to make some slow, tight turns in a parking lot, and I actually looked forward to it, not dreaded them like before.
The other area I realized I need to practice is making smoother stops at lights. I do "ok", but after looking at videos and really watching some good riders, I realize my stops are not "butter smooth"....they are more like "crunchy peanut butter smooth"! One thing I was doing was applying front brake along with rear to make the final stop, and now I release the front brake a couple of feet before the "landing" or complete stop, and regulate the last foot or so with the rear only, that made a HUGE difference.
I think the best thing I did was be humble enough to admit that my age or "so called" experience were not enough to rely on, and although I do believe those things make me a SAFER rider (because I am more aware of dangers) they didnt in themselves make me a BETTER rider. So, now that my son and I ride together, I am actually learning a lot from him, since he recently took the basic course and all those things are fresh in his mind. I believe I may be back to TRULY enjoyng this sport/hobby all over again!
Thank you to all the folks in this forum that have given such great advice and tips!