It's pretty hard to advise people what bike to get, especially if you don't know them, or anything about them. Most folks don't take advice, anyway. They want a different brand, different color - they want to pick their own. But, if you're willing, here's my suggestion:
A Moto Guzzi Norge. It's a real ST that looks great, has controllable horsepower, a dependable motor, is probably more comfortable than anything else out there (depending on your size and shape, I suppose), and decent luggage. It's lighter than an FJR, but heavier than a Sprint ST. It's really nimble, and the brakes are great. Your friend would seriously be into the ST crowd, but on a milder platform, although a more unique bike.
New price is a drawback, so I'd opt for a used one. You can find these, with low miles, easy. Sparse dealer network is another drawback, but Guzzi's have a rep for dependability and endurance.
If the choice is between a Bandit and an SV1000, however; I'd go with the Bandit. If his experience isn't up to a 1250, suggest the little Bandit or the FZ6. Used Bandits and FZ6's are cheap, and nearly every dealer has one.
Back to the difficulties recommending bikes - It's easier to mention what to stay away from: BMW's, or anything with high maint. costs and serious known failure issues.