Ok, it seems there is a lot of confusion here, I will outline the steps better
1. to turn on the aux lights, you flick on the high beam switch
2. a LED starts to flash for only 2-3 seconds. To turn on the aux lights, you must turn off the high beam switch while the LED light is flashing, otherwise they won't
3. If you want your high beams on, then just turn the switch back on, just don't touch it while the LED is flashing. The point of the LED flashing, lets you know when you turn the switch back off to activate your aux lights.
to recap
1. switch on, LED flashes
2. switch off, aux lights turn on
3. for high beams as well turn switch on.
4. to turn off with high beams on, turn switch off then on again, LED flashes
5. switch off, aux lights off.
I know this sounds complicated to some, but it really isnt and the install makes it possible to have aux lights with no additional external switches.