Well apparently, I can't take my own friggin advice... mostly.
Yesterday, my daughter was involved in a vehicle accident that totaled her car. Thankfully, she is OK as the seat belt and air bags did their job. Because she was not distracted, she was able to perform a split second evasive manuver that greatly lessened how bad it could have been.
Her car was totaled, the other vehicle was at fault, and while I'm investigating, I don't think the other vehicle had insurance. Now, my 21-year old college kid doesn't need a disability policy, and she's still covered under our major medical policy. However, I didn't have UIM (cost prohibitive) and now I get to buy another car. A 170K honda accord is hardly worth fretting over, but as you can see, the knife always cuts both ways.
Still - she's sleeping peacefully in her old bedroom now. When I drove up to the scene (2 minutes after it happened) and saw her standing there, quite frankly, I think I got everything I want for Christmas right then. Cheers.