Ok...I'll play your little game, since I think I was the most recent to bitch about the bike being top-heavy.
Here's the problem: The times I have dropped this bike have been totally MY fault. It is the tallest bike I have ever owned, and it is not a light weight. So, if I have my head up my ass when I am parking it, it is not nearly as forgiving as the lighter sport bikes or the lower center of gravity cruisers I have owned. Basically, I think my bitch about it being top heavy is misplaced. What is going on is that the bike is more top heavy than anything I have ever ridden for any period of time, and after years of getting away with putting the bike on its sidestand while on a slant, it's hard to remember that this will fall over easier.
That being said, this bike is not hard to handle. In fact, quite the opposite. It has tons of smooth power, very good lean angles, and good balance on the road. It can be ridden hard and fast, which is what I think leads to some of the crashes members here have. Remember too that this group has a lot of people that put on a LOT of miles. A bike that never leaves the garage is never at risk of hitting a dear or entering a corner too fast. We ride and we are not perfect, but I would say very few of the incidents any of us have on this machine are due to the machine's engineering.
The FJR may not be for you, but I suggest you go ride one. I would be very surprised if you are not impressed.