I have been riding with my daughter since she was 7, she is now 12 and will take any and every opportunity to go for a ride.
We had one occasion, when riding my 1986 FJ1200 to watch a motocross race that she fell asleep on the back.
At that point I felt her head rock forward and fortunately head butted me, from that day forward, we ride with the buddy belt and helmet to helmet communication.
It is some of the best times we spend together, and I would not give it up for so called safety reasons.
She is not being coated in cotton wool, niether was I as a kid, it gets to the point in this country when you have just got to flip the finger at all the safety Natzi ney sayers and go out and enjoy your life.
For that reason alone, I am glad I grew up in England, and so is my daughter.
"If it feels good, do it"
Skippy