bigdolma
Master chef for Kebobs & Hummus extraordinaire
god bless...sad way to go!
Melinda Moore – Help Them Find Her!
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BobbyBlue
Arrhythmia and Blues
Compassion to her loved ones 
...and we should all appreciate each other more, this forum might just be more important than we know...blessings...
Bobby
...and we should all appreciate each other more, this forum might just be more important than we know...blessings...Bobby
grrrrrr....
[soapbox]
suicide is so f'ing selfish...because others have to clean up your mess...
i mean, do you really think people enjoy recovering your partialy decomposed body (stench and visuals), and destroyed bike?
selfish because all the searchers are focused entirely on you, hoping you might be alive, only to find you broken and battered? (ha, jokes on them?)
suicide is such a COWARDS way out...instead of facing with dignity your troubles and issues, you leave them for others to deal with for you...
selfish chicken
[off soap box]
yes, i've seen suicide as a family member (47 y/o uncle blew brains out in his sons bed), and as a emergency worker (15 y/o girl that had 'too many problems' (at 15!!!???) so blew her brains out)... *fond* memories to never be erased from my minds eye... thanks, cowardly a'holes...
yes, i know what my signature says, i'm poking hard at the notion that ANY suicide could be 'legitimate'. BS
[soapbox]
suicide is so f'ing selfish...because others have to clean up your mess...
i mean, do you really think people enjoy recovering your partialy decomposed body (stench and visuals), and destroyed bike?
selfish because all the searchers are focused entirely on you, hoping you might be alive, only to find you broken and battered? (ha, jokes on them?)
suicide is such a COWARDS way out...instead of facing with dignity your troubles and issues, you leave them for others to deal with for you...
selfish chicken
[off soap box]
yes, i've seen suicide as a family member (47 y/o uncle blew brains out in his sons bed), and as a emergency worker (15 y/o girl that had 'too many problems' (at 15!!!???) so blew her brains out)... *fond* memories to never be erased from my minds eye... thanks, cowardly a'holes...
yes, i know what my signature says, i'm poking hard at the notion that ANY suicide could be 'legitimate'. BS
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Thug
A shy retiring flower in a Thug's exterior
If you think about it objectively it would take nerves of steel to commit suicide...Even for only a split second.
Very sad news I hope the family's pain is tempered by time.
Very sad news I hope the family's pain is tempered by time.
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wheatonFJR
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I understand the feelings and emotions and pressures that head one toward the edge...however thay are unbalanced and deluded feelings that need to be balanced by others in your life.
I totally understand - however I totally hate and am saddened by the result.
I totally understand - however I totally hate and am saddened by the result.
radman
R.I.P. Our Motorcycling Friend
None of us knows what brings one to commit the ultimate murder-we're here and writing. Suffice to say it must have been awful in her world.... :rip:
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Thug
A shy retiring flower in a Thug's exterior
As a paramedic I have witnessed some very sad goings on but one in particular was a 21 yo who had every thing going for him in life. He was a strapping lad with with a talent for sport who had a wonderful family and the ladies were beating down his door. His only problem was had a mental health disorder. A manic depressive with suicidal tendencies. When he was at his worst he'd say to his folks I'm going to commit suicide and on it went for many of his young years.
One day he said to his Mum I'm going to go out and hang myself from the pergola out the back, Mum, who had heard this most of his adult life, was not too concerned about his idle threat, one that he made thousands of times but never went through with them. An hour later Mum wnet out the back and here he was hanging from the pergola. When we got there he had obviously died at his own hands. His folks understood that one day he might carry out his threat so that in itself was of little comfort though.
There are always signs that something is not quite right...Always...
One day he said to his Mum I'm going to go out and hang myself from the pergola out the back, Mum, who had heard this most of his adult life, was not too concerned about his idle threat, one that he made thousands of times but never went through with them. An hour later Mum wnet out the back and here he was hanging from the pergola. When we got there he had obviously died at his own hands. His folks understood that one day he might carry out his threat so that in itself was of little comfort though.
There are always signs that something is not quite right...Always...
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HIGHLANDER
naewittyshitepostedeere
This pic was taken by a fellow rider on the same day as her demise, very close to where she ended her life. It's so sad that a person's vision of the world is so blurred , and there's beauty all around.
fjrchooser
Well-known member
I'm very sorry she felt so lost and this was the only way out. My prayers to her, her family and her friends.
Too bad the Tuono had to die too.
Too bad the Tuono had to die too.
DrEvil777
Well-known member
As we can never know what burdens she carried, we truly can not understand her pain.
Just glad that they found her and that her loved ones now know what happened. Closure, as painful as it can be sometime, is much better than never knowing.
Just glad that they found her and that her loved ones now know what happened. Closure, as painful as it can be sometime, is much better than never knowing.
