Dangerous Dave
The older I get, the faster I was...
Don't know if a Scion xB is similar to yours.
Here's its headlight schematic.
https://scionlife.org/Scion_Docs/2006_xB_Wi...20headlight.pdf
Looks like the lamp power enters the common between the high and low beam filaments. The dimmer switch completes the circuit to ground for either the high or low beams. From this drawing I don't see how the lamps can affect the high beam indicator on the instrument cluster.
The xD wiring is very different. The H/B indicator on the xD gets its power through the headlight bulb, not from the dome fuse as in the xB. For whatever reason, the HID kit isn't passing the voltage on to the indicator, although I honestly don't understand why not. The previously mentioned idea works, I'm just not having any luck finding the correct resistor that will turn on the indicator without letting the smoke out of anything else. I haven't cooked anything yet, and I'd like to keep it that way, hence my quest for help from people who are better at this than I. I wish my file hosting site would do pdf's, then I could post mine up.