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Well today it happened. It was inevitable....
Went with my son on his first multi-day outing. He stalled it at some road-work traffic lights with the front wheel turned, dropped it for his first time. Looked miserable for a day, then we were into the Highlands of Scotland.

The grin returned.

 
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Might want to remind your little sweeties that the only person that EVER notices those little scratches here and there on a motorcycle is the one person that was there when it happened.

Aren't we the same way? What ever little scratch I've got on the bike is the first thing i look for when I walk up to it.

WHY DO WE DO THIS? It's so self-defeating. We just have to find and stare at that one little area. But it's refreshing to know that almost without exception, NOBODY ELSE DOES.

Gary

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I agree Gary, I look at the scratches on mine 95% of the time getting on. In a way, it's a reminder of how quickly things can take a turn into the unexpected.

So today I straightened out the shifter, so it's usable. I've also got one ordered for the next time. :)

My daughter wants to ride it today, so off we go! Wish us luck.

 
My daughter wants to ride it today, so off we go! Wish us luck.
Wish you luck? You greedy rascal you already seem to have all the luck! A wife and (very pretty) daughter that both want to ride and spend time with you doing something as fun as motorcycle riding is beyond ordinary "luck"!

Still, I hope you enjoy your day and your ride. The weather here is perfect for a motorcycle ride and I... Well, I am at work. At least I rode the bike again.

 
Thanks man, it was a wonderful day! A front, that had stalled, finally pushed through. Headed south, doing a big loop, and had the back roads to ourselves. Took a break at 45 miles, then back on the road. Came upon a bad accident, stalled in 4 lane traffic for 20 minutes with mid-80's temp. People started cutting through the median, so we inched up to a turn around spot and went another way. It was bad, whatever it was, because besides no traffic movement in either direction, there were tons of flashing lights and an Evac helicopter. We went by to visit her granny for a little while, then headed home. I asked her if she wanted to take the lead spot home from granny's house, and she said "Sure!". I got to watch how she held her line and shifted. She was damn near flawless. She's starting to look seasoned, which gives me great relief and to know that she takes this seriously.

Another great day! Now, I just got to work with wifey a bit more to get her comfortable riding without too much overthinking. All in due time...all in due time. :)

 
**UPDATE**

So after a few months of weekend riding, my daughter is almost veteran-like. Great starts and stops, and beginning to trust her leaning more. I'm really surprised at how quickly she is progressing...and relieved.

Since she has recently acquired a boyfriend, her riding time as been reduced somewhat. So instead of wifey and I riding two up with her, wifey is getting some seat time. She's still a bit stiff on it, especially braking. It was freaking her out at every stop. Feeling she was going too fast, she would grab the front brake. I decided to ride behind her for awhile and see what she was doing wrong. BINGO! I noticed she was putting both feet out for each stop, which left her grabbing the front brake. So, I took her to an empty parking lot at the local college, to work on it. After 30 minutes, or so, she now was braking with her rear brake, putting her left foot out for the stop, and slightly touching the front brake at the end. She gets it now!

On our rides now, she no longer worries about stopping, and is enjoying the ride. Just yesterday we did 135 miles, and she wanted to do more! Her thoughts of a Can-Am Spyder are fading....fast! She now wants a motorcycle instead. She has totally fell in love with riding. Again, I NEVER saw this coming, and has changed things in our lives. My wife says that she feels much closer to me now, and I to her. After 24 years of marriage, this is a good thing.

I'm a lucky man.

 
Still scary stuff. Experience to know what to do as instinct takes years and years. Hopefully they'll get it down quick. I feel your pain, my son wants a bike I say no to his silliness. He's just not there never has been a rider.

Good luck to you and the family and enjoy!

 
***update***

So lately, my daughter has been coming home on weekends as usual, but now she is splitting time between the bike, and us, and a new boyfriend. We are doing about 130 mile rides together, and she is becoming quite the rider now. She got to experience some post-cold front 20-30 mph winds, and learned how to ride into the wind. Scary for her, but she got through it.

Going through the local phosphate mine roads (the ones that aren't straight) she is becoming more aggressive. She is showing good control, and no panic. Of course, now I worry about over-confidence. At the same time, I'm very proud of what she is accomplishing.

Now wifey, on the other hand, has turned into a monster! All she wants to do is ride the bike. The other week we did 230 miles. She was so pumped up afterwards, and didn't want it to end. So when my daughter leaves on Saturday, Sunday is my wife's and I ride day. Since the weather is perfect this time of year, which adds to the enjoyment. She too got to experience the high winds the other day. It also scared her, but has added to her confidence with bike handling.

Today she wanted to go visit her nephew, who lives in Stuart, FL. So off on the bikes we went, leaving at 9:30a. Temps in the mid 50's when we left, and upper 70's when we arrived. Took US 17 down to SR66/US98 to Okeechobee, then 411 around Lake Okeechobee, to SR76 to Stuart. Stayed later than we wanted, and ended up leaving about 4:30p. So about halfway back we ran out of light. She was a little freaked out about riding back roads in the dark, but I kept talking to her about this and that, making her laugh and such, to take her mind off of it. We got home about 7:00p, and 325 miles of riding. She's a bit sore in the shoulders and exhausted.

However, after all was said and done, and she eased into the couch, a few moments of silence passed. Then a smile came across her face, and she said "honey....I love you.". "Oh yeah, why's that" I said. "Because today was so great, and I want to thank you for bringing this into my life.".

Again, I was left somewhat speechless....and....having the time of my life, riding with the wife!

I'm blessed.

 
'Zilla, I may just do that! First things first, I've got to find out more about him before I go that route, to make it justifiable. :)

Right now, he's doing all the right things, and my daughter appears to be very happy with him. We'll have to wait and see.

 
'Zilla, I may just do that! First things first, I've got to find out more about him before I go that route, to make it justifiable.
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Right now, he's doing all the right things, and my daughter appears to be very happy with him. We'll have to wait and see.
In my experience, a father watching a daughter getting interested in a man is one of the scariest things to endure. We all know what we were after when we were his age, and, even if things start to look serious, no man can ever be good enough for our daughter.

Can't offer any advice, what I do know is that had I tried to influence my daughter either way, she'd have done the exact opposite to what I wanted, and, being female, she knows my wishes regardless of what I might say to her.

Oh, yes, be very thankful for your wife, mine won't ride at all.

 
LKLD, that's cool as heck!! Sounds like you three are having a blast. If you need to 'dispose' of the boyfriend, give me a call. I know some 'things!'
Rob, I've got "a guy" in Mulberry who will "do somebody" for a six-pack. I'm right across the street...lemme know. :D

 
A wife who loves to ride ...... sounds like heaven to me.

 
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Respect to your wife, my brother - 325 miles on a Ninja 300 with a stock seat is some serious riding. Raving about it an hour after the ride is totally over the top!

 
***UPDATE***

Ok, pull up a chair.

So my daughter is home on Christmas break from college. Haven't seen much of her, as she is with Mr. Dream boy...Isaiah. We'll meet him Christmas, oh joy. We will ride tomorrow though, so I don't need help with him....yet. ;)

Marie (wifey) and I continue to ride each weekend. Going here, and going there, having lunch in places we've never been. The weather has been friggin' perfect, lows 40's and highs 60/70's. Took her to Yalaha Bakery last weekend, and she loved it. Had lunch, some sweets, and the long way home. Took her over Sugarloaf Mountain, well, a large hill really, but in Flatistan....it's a mountain.

I told her the other day, that I wanted to go to the EOM meet at the end of September. Of course, she said fine. So I asked her "Do you want to go with me?". She replies " Do you think I could do it?", and I told her yes, she could do it, just not straight up (approx. 800 miles). So she said "Sure!". So now she's excited about making a trip, and of course a strong dose on anxiety. The trip is becoming a enjoyable conversation, with talk of routes, places we'll travel, and such.

Now, my daughter is taking her bike with her back to college in a couple months, so Marie and I started looking into bikes that she might like. Even though she's become quite comfortable on the Ninja 300, I know she'll outgrow it soon enough, and it's not a bike for trips out of state. So off to the dealerships to find a bike SHE will like. Looked at the CBR500, and she liked the way it felt, mainly because it's about the same size as the Ninja 300, and I feel not enough bike. Then we started looking at the 600/650 range. At first she felt these are "really big bikes!", but after sitting on them a bit, she started feeling more comfortable on them. Finally, we narrowed it down to 2 bikes, the Ninja 650 and Yamaha FZ6R. We have been weighing the pros and cons of each bike, you know, the stuff she likes and doesn't like. Basically it's been a push either way, with Yamaha a little more money (Kawi 650 ABS MSRP $7,599 and the FZ6R $7,890). Yesterday we looked at 2 local dealers, and both said they would deal, but we didn't go any further, because of Christmas spending and insurances being due on 3 cars and 2 motorcycles, so we figured we'd wait until February to get serious.

Today, we went to Barney's of Brandon to have a look see. They sell both Kawi and Yami, so she could get on one bike, then the other for comparison. We actually were looking at a used Ninja 650 outside when a salesman approached us. After letting him know we were just "kicking tires", he said he had a new 2014 Ninja 650 on sale for $6,000! Whoa Nelly, didn't see that coming. He tried to reel us in by catering to my wife, didn't work, but liked the effort. We still walked out without any real number crunching, but god it was tempting.

Went back to our hometown to have lunch and talk about that offer. Marie was starting to feel butterflies in her stomach, with the thought of ACTUALLY getting a bike. I mentioned to her that I would call our local Yamaha dealer, that we've visited yesterday, and talk to the salesman who sold me my FJR. I got him on the phone and explained what had happened in Brandon, and was there anything he could do to get me close to that price point. He said he'll call me back. 10 minutes later he tells me he can sell me a 2014 red/white FZ6R for $5,990! Didn't see that coming. Told him I'd call him back, and then told Marie what he said. Her response was, and I quote " :eek: ". We got on the bikes and headed to the dealership.

Sooo, this Friday we will pick up her new bike.



 
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