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A quiet reflective morning for Pants today. Perhaps some of you have seen the news about the theatre murders in my hometown. Thankfully, my peeps are all safe but its a very sobering mood here now. I know it's cliche' but really - this kind of thing just doesn't happen here. We know it happens in New Orleans and Houston - we read and see about it often. But here? Hard to imagine, and even harder to accept.

I know that every place is "special" with its own history, culture, and people. I've seen much of it first hand in my travels. My place is no different.

The story of the Cajuns is inspiring. In 1765, when the Acadians in what is now Canada refused to swear allegiance to the then occupied British colonists, they were all deported from their land. Some settled in New England, some drifted, but most found their way to southwest Louisiana, where the French were looking for anyone to homestead the vast Louisiana territory. I often imagine the incredible challenges these people faced to adapt and develop what was surely a disease infested swamp land. I believe they did it by laughing a little bit every day, by having a strong faith, a good bit of stubborness, and by helping each other out and being there for each other for the greater and complete good.

DNA and the Human Spirit are both incredible things. Once you peel away the superficial stuff, you can still see these great qualities in our people 250 years later. What you see in the movies and on TV is exaggerated, but not by much. We have a tendency to celebrate just about anything. If it moves or grows, we can cook and prepare it to taste like a delicacy. We work hard and play just as hard. Most of us are stubborn - set in our ways that are deeply rooted in closeness of family and faith.

But today I'm reminded of what is perhaps our very best quality - when one of us needs help, all of us come quickly, selflessly, and willingly. The biggest will come to the aid of the smallest, and not think twice about it. This crosses every demographic line you can possibly imagine - it doesn't matter. We offer our resources and our talents. And the next day, we check on our brother or sister to make sure they are all right and back on track.

And we will do that with our beloved victims this week. The ones that were in the line of fire, their families and friends, and everyone else like me that can't seem to make sense of this right now. But we are strong and we are not scared. This is not going to change the way we live.

Today my wife and I are throwning a surprise 20th birthday party for our son. Next weekend we put him on a plane to Europe, where he will study in France this Fall. We won't see him until Christmas. Today we will be surrounded by our family and close friends. And you can bet your lunch that today I will hug and kiss my kids, look them straight in the eye, and tell them that I am proud of them....

.....and I love them.

 
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No place is exempt from this type of senseless tragedy now a days. My prayers go to the innocents and their families.

Pants, always good to read what you write. Enjoy your time with your family.

 
Hard to imagine something like this happening so close to home! I live in an area where many of the Cajuns came from (New Brunswick). There are some striking similarities between the Canadian Maritime Acadians and the Louisiana Cajuns.

By the way, you can edit the post title if you use the "Full Editor".

 
When I first saw the headline on Yahoo I assumed LA meant Los Angeles, there had to have been a typo. I was thinking, "No way this could have happened in Lafayette, Louisiana". I suppose that "Crazy" knows no geographical boundaries and that even the best of communities are not exempt from having idiots inside them.

'Pants I hope you guys have a nice time today. Enjoy your son's birthday party and enjoy the good times. The good things in this world really are more abundant than the bad.

My son and I are about to spend a few quality hours playing with the chainsaws and the tractor. I do not think he is really excited about that.

 
Ross - I've heard about the similarities with our Canadian cousins. People I know that have visited french-speaking Canadian providences say that it is like going to a home away from home. One day I shall like to experience that for myself.

RFH - it cannot be overstated. Cherish (worship even) your time with your son. They grow so fast and before you know it, they are gone.

 
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All though I don't remember anything about lafayette LA I was born there. My father built a house there which I still have the original plans that he drew up. Some day I would like to visit it and most of my long lost cousins that live in LA. If I do I may look you up pants. My uncle was a parrish priest there but has sinced passed on many years ago. It's very traggic but I fear these things are going to become more common. I have my reasons why these things happen but will not discuss here.

God bless,

Dave

 
Dave, don't forget us here in Baton Rouge either. Pants always has the ability to put things in perspective and point out the truly important. We are all more closely related than we think or know. We've just been brainwashed to forget our kin and our loyalties. And our faith. That's what makes down here a bit different than most of nation.. We still recognize these things.

 
My Grandpa ( pawpaw ), was a deputy sheriff in Rapides parish for 25 years after retiring from the air force....i am glad he is gone and doesn't see this crap...so senseless and sad....and NOWHERE is immune anymore...

 
I lived in Hammond, LA for two years in the mid '80's and have passed through Lafayette a time or two (also managed to find myself in Leesville, Mansfield, Donaldsonville and several other LA towns along the way). I make a point read every one of your RR's to relive some of what I miss about the area. I am glad you and yours are not directly affected by this event, but I understand the sense of community that makes it seem very personal. From the short time I spent in Louisiana, I know the strength of character of those who call it home and I know you will keep doing what you do every day. Rock on, Lafayette.

 
See what I mean??? Bobby,, I come from Rapides parish. My father was also Air Force there at EAFB. Came to Baton Rouge permanently in mid to late 80's. Mothers side of family is spread from near Tx. border to about Lafayette. Father is from northern Il. but he came to La. And did not want to leave. So true about nowhere being immune from the craziness going on in the world..

 
So true about nowhere being immune from the craziness going on in the world..
Yes there is craziness going on in the world and the media makes sure we know all about it... every second of every single f*cking day... but I know from firsthand experiences that that is NOT the majority of what goes on in this world... there is way more good stuff going on but that doesn't make front page news so all we see is the negative, the explosive, the gasp-inducing. But there are a bazillion more people such as Sir Pants speaks of, him included, that stand up when folks are in need... that reach out a helping hand... that stand by friends, families, and even strangers every single day... whether it's a tragedy such as the one in Lafayette to someone dealing with an illness to someone needing help getting their bike back together... THAT happens. Every. Single. Day.

I send prayers, thoughts, and healing energy to all those affected by this tragedy that one human being created... and to the dozens or hundreds that are stepping up to help in a time of need, thank you... I know any one of you folks here would do the same and I hope you don't ever have to do it in a situation such as this... and I hope that you do it every time you can even if it's a "little" thing.

Every. Single. Day.

 
Very eloquent.

My son has been at camp for a week. He will be getting some very long hugs today when we pick him up.

Hug your loved ones today, and every day.

 
we long time riders....not the johnny come lately hardley crowd....have long understood the intimate immediacy of our passion....a very small mistake can be catostrophic as we all know...i was told to stop riding or i would be removed from the heart transplant list...and so it goes...but my passion and my love of this collective will keep me here forever....i really don't mind although it will be easier when he is sold or traded...my passion remains...i've also had to give up building guitar amps for awhile...they just don't know what the affect of such immediate EMF will be on la machines and as i'm already over a million bucks in, i gotta heed....its hard and i'm more stubborn than most...but it all comes down to family...this place is where my family hangs....i am much closer to y'all than my own 2 kids..who haven't seen me in years....and i'm just fine with that !!!

so here's to hugs and kisses and the little stuff that matters big....get some life, bite off more than you can chew, i drool good times !!!

Blessed Big Time !!!

bobby

ps....G thats so cool to know a fellow homegrown **** *** !!!! we shall hook up for sure !

 
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Didn't see this post until today.

It is sad that there are such deranged people out there, but it's really nothing new; it has always been that way. It's just that, like Tytler said, now we hear about it in excruciating gory detail on the nightly news. There is no need to become paranoid. The rotten part of our society is not really gaining on us. But that certainly doesn't help when it does hit so close to home, as it did to our friend Pants.

We had a family birthday celebration this weekend too, for our little boy. He turned 29 yesterday. His favorite food has always been steamed lobster and clams, and the whole family will show up if we do a boil. So we did, and they did. It is a special time when you can get your entire family gathered around the table for any reason.

When it's all over and the fat lady finally sings at your bedside, you won't lament that bucket list ride that you never took, but you might wish that you'd been able to spend more time with the ones you love. The real secret to "the good life" is finding the priorities.

 
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