Geezer
Parsimonious Curmudgeon
First scenario - Been there. My wife and I had ordered drinks but nothing else yet. Drinks had not arrived. The place was busy so there were no other tables. We just got up and went to another restaurant. If we had received our drinks I would have left enough cash to cover the cost. I have three children, adults now, and we often took them with us to restaurants when they were young. They were not loud nor disruptive. It's a skill they have to learn before you can take them with you.
Second scenario - I absolutely would not have paid for the appetizers if I no longer wanted them. Take them back or leave them at the table, but don't expect me to pay for them.
Second scenario - I absolutely would not have paid for the appetizers if I no longer wanted them. Take them back or leave them at the table, but don't expect me to pay for them.