I hate tar snakes, they always make me pucker. Sorry to hear about the wreck, but very glad you walked away. +1 for ATGAT!. Definitely listen to the spouse's concerns, and evaluate how or if you want to continue riding. I'm exceedingly blessed that my bride loves riding on the FJR with me, but if she didn't and all my riding was solo, I would definitely have to think about my longer trips and how she would react to any 'incident' I had along the way. Of course, there are many ways to mitigate both the risks of riding and the trepidation of a spouse. Find what works best for you both.