Hey Mike. Approaching some great milestones with my AIW also. 33 years married and 39 years together total.Sorry I didn't read the "other thread" until I just saw the link. You will be included in my prayers daily. Wanted to send a PM but could't figure it out. I (my wife ) raised three and plenty of bumps along the way. I feel you are familiar with the verse that says God will never test us beyond our endurance. I call this my Golden Thread in that no matter what comes my way I know I can take it so I hang in there by my Golden Thread. Does'nt make it any easier though and I've been through some tough stuff over the years. I know one thing God has never failed even though we don't ever know His plan we must have faith through the storm. In my prayers "not an empty promise".