HEY - you callin' me an old fart!! Not that you're wrong...
The following is my personal opinion.
I agree with the vanilla designs...with most cars today, but you're right about our Asian friends. It's funny, chrysler used to make the absolute ugliest cars on the planet; now they actually make some really nice looking cars, still crap, but good looking crap. Heck, if it was made by someone else I'd buy a Pacifica in a heartbeat.
My experience is exactly the opposite of yours. My daughter now drives our 99 Accord, after I drove it for 5 years, my son for another 2 and then Kate. Has about 180k on it this week and all I've ever done is change fluids/filters/tires/brake pads. I have an 04 Accord with 80k, same story. Lorie has an 07 CR-V and we'll see on that one.
I had an 87 Voyager and 96 Grand Caravan and neither came even close to our 99 Accord in mileage and I spent literally thousands fixing/replaceing stuff on them, to include a new trans on the 96. Hell, I think the 96 was newer when I got rid of it than when I bought it with all the crap I had to fix/replace!
I really wish I believed there was a US manufacturer who made a decent car - made in America and not in Canada as my 2 previous chrysler "American" cars were. But I gotta tell you, I'm not paying $20, 30k for a vehicle that has proven to me in the past to be a low quality product. Heck, my Hondas (Accords) were both made in the US and are the best cars I've ever owned - we can friggin' do it!! Why won't US manufacturers pay the price and walk the talk to make better cars??
My apolgies for the screed, but this is a subject that gets me going and really pisses me off. This is the greatest country on earth with the greatest people on earth and we can do geometrically better in this area than we do - when you accept crap you get crap. I think I'm done.