You guys is lucky that my weekend oil painting is coming out ******, because I need a looong break and now I'm going to bless you with my wisdom on this subject....
When I start to feel like I want to call everyone in a car a "Stupid f**king moron who deserves to die," which is often
, I think of my wife and kids who drive, are decent drivers, are considerate of motorcycles, and whom I don't believe deserve to die. Then by extension I realize I must not actually believe
everyone in a car is stupid and deserves to die. Just some people. And of course those people should be dragged from their cars and summarily shot dead in the street. :glare:
Now, as to why motorcyclists gripe some people's *****, well, I think it's all been covered above. But I would have to have lived my life entirely differently before I could walk away from an opportunity to give my humble opinion.
My boss actually hates motorcyclists. Man, we get in his car and go somewhere together, and if I want to light him up, I just say, "Hey, boss, what do you think of motorcyclists?" And then I listen in fascination at what comes out of his mouth.
Now, holding that thought for a moment, whenever someone here in the Great State of California who does not ride hears that I ride, the first question out of their mouth is (after they tell me about their friend who died horribly in a motorcycle accident that is): "Are you one of those guys who goes up between the cars?" [Every commuter on this forum from California will agree that that is the question we are all asked.]
They ask this question for two reasons: (1) They want to know if you are a crazy son of a *****, and (2) they want to know whether to hate you or not.
So my response to that invariable question, depending on whether I care about the person's good opinion, is, "Do you hate it when motorcyclists do that?" Of course mine is a moot question because all non-riding drivers hate it when motorcyclists go up between them and another car--period.
And now we come to the crux of the thread: The reason they hate motorcyclists for doing that is because it scares them. And they hate us for scaring them.
When I am commuting to or from work on a dense but fast-moving freeway, cruising in the number one (fast) lane several car lengths off the right rear quarter of the car in front of me, practically straddling the centerline (no car to my right), I KNOW I'm making that driver nervous. Because they don't know what in the f**k I'm going to do. And they're afraid they're going to kill me...by accident. And that makes them mad. So that when I get weary of hanging behind the car and go on up past them, they feel relieved.
What ticks my boss off and gets his ears turning red talking about it is that he's afraid he's going to nail a motorcyclist who comes out of nowhere just when he starts to think about making a lane change. And even though the rider was in no danger (from the rider's perspective), the driver believes that the coincidental timing of his thinking about making a lane change and the bike's shooting by meant that he almost hit the bike. In his head he shouts "F**kin' a**hole motorcyclist! Damnit! I coulda killed him!" But it waren't really close for the bike. Doesn't mean the driver's not pissed off.
[Practically] nobody gets in their car with the plan of killing a motorcyclist today. And they know that if a motocyclist killed him- / herself by riding into the side of their car when they were making a "safe, rational" lane change (because there isn't a driver on the road who doesn't think he / she is a good driver), well, that would just ruin their day (and their paint job). So they're mad at us for creating that possibility.
I do not doubt TWN for a nano-second that given the chance, California voters would eliminate the right to go up between cars in a heartbeat. Of course they would.