I really hate having to type this. I first met Ken at White Stag a few years ago, and he has become a friend since then.
I knew about the Buffalo Checkpoint bonus on the 1088, and that Matt and Ken would be attempting the ride. While on the Iron Butt Rally, I was heading to the checkpoint, and as I was exiting the Toll Road, saw Matt Watkins with his distinctive colored FJR entering the Toll Road. I gave him a big wave, and he waved back at me. I knew Matt was on a mission, and was travelling in a rather expeditious manner. I wondered if Ken was behind him.
I pulled into the hotel parking lot, stopped the rally clock, moved my bike, and got my stuff for scoring. As I was walking back to the hotel, I heard a magical, disembodied voice say, " I am a Utah 1088 rider and I need to find an IBR rider to take a picture." I looked over, and it was Ken. I hollered "KEN"!! He turned and looked at me and said, "Dougie, I was hoping I would see you here." I threw my stuff on the ground, and got out my rally flag, which I had not used up to that point. Ken got off of his V-Strom, and gave his flag to someone to position it against my body as he took his picture. After that, he got his flag, and I picked my stuff off the ground, and started heading to the hotel. As I was leaving, he said "Hey!" and gave me a 1088 hat, which was part of the requirement of the bonus, to show the brotherhood amongst the two different rallies. I took the hat, and continued on into the Hotel. Ken was in a hurry, and I don't believe he went into the hotel, but instead finished up and then headed back to Salt Lake City.
I found out about Ken while on a gas stop in Maryland. It is never a good thing to hear something like that while on the Iron Butt rally, or any other time for that matter. I knew I had to keep it together, and did my best to keep it out of my head, as impossible as that was.
I wore the 1088 hat Ken had give me at the Iron Butt Rally checkpoints. As I finished the rally at 5:30 AM in Ontario, California, I put the hat back on. My dear friend and riding partner Peter Perrin saw it on me and said, "What are you doing wearing that hat, you aren't a 1088 rider?" I told him it was given to me by Ken at the Buffalo checkpoint. His jaw about dropped to the ground, and he said, then by all means keep wearing it. Voni Glaves overheard this, and instantly came over to give me a big and much needed hug.
I have now known five people personally who have died while riding since I took up this way of life in September 05, three of whom have rocks in the Nevada outback, counting Ken's to be. Ken is the first person who was an actual friend to be lost. As much as I hurt, my thoughts are with Ken's family and close riding partners, as I know their grief and loss is much greater than my own. It was nice to talk about some of this with Dennis Y. in Ontario at the finish of the IBR.
I will remember Ken, and commit to riding as safely as I can in his memory, and will see him on the other side someday....