Ok, thanks for the posts.
Here is what I decided. The base of the broken tab is the VERY thin outline of a semicircle, with a center blade. If you put it into and ink pad to make a stamp, you'd get a fancy curved "E" (also kinda like a cer-clip).
Basically, very little surface to glue (and frankly Yamaha, what a crappy design!)
So for my broken one, I ground most of the ridge around it (see pic) leaving only a small edge on the opposite of the open side. Then I found a flat washer that just barely fit the tab. Layed down a puddle of 24 hour epoxy, put epoxy on the base of the pin,
shoved the pin into the washer, put the washer/pin down, using the little piece of ridge to guide the placement. Then I added lots more epoxy on top of the washer, and filled in the stupid hollow pin too.
(I had to grind that ridge down as my washer wouldn't fit, maybe if you found a smaller OD washer with sufficent ID, you could leave the ridge?) My thinking is now the tab is not only glued to the bottom, but at least it has some side support too. I didn't use 2 washers for more support as I am afraid it would make the base too high, and the tab wouldn't make it into the hole and "click". There is some chance tomorrow when I reassemble it, even the one washer is too much, but as it is about as high as the former plastic ridge, I think it will work. (I'll post tomorrow if I am wrong.)
A day later, it seems stronger than the original.
And then, I decided to fill in that ridge area and the inside of the pin with epoxy on the side that was NOT broken off, thinking it will help avoid breaking that one off.
I found a place on-line selling Yamaha parts, and the price for this piece new was about $275!
Lastly, looking at how it all lays out, I don't think the trick is to pull back on the tank cover when you are removing it, I think it would be much better to hold the very front down, get your finger under the cover about two inches
behind where the tab is, and pull it out in a circular motion, with the center of the rotation the front edge you are holding down.
Here are the pics of the patched broken one and the good one before I added epoxy to it.