If you say so...
Personally, while I always dismount to put the bike up on one, I never take the bike off of the center stand unless I'm sitting on it. I'll risk "hogging out" the center-stand pivots (pshaa!
) so I can have a leg on each side of the bike when it comes down. Taking a >600 lb bike off of its center stand is a great way to drop it on its right side. If the weight of the bike starts to lean away from you that sucker is going down. Ain't none of you big boys gonna stop it by tugging on a handle bar from the left side.
I specifically DO NOT put the bike into gear, and in fact would shift the bike into neutral before de-standing (if it wasn't already). It is usually already in neutral as I'd have put it there before putting the bike up on the center stand to begin with. There's no good reason to have the bike in gear on the center stand as the rear wheel is off the ground anyway. Being in a riding position, I also have two perfectly good brake levers to use to make sure the bike doesn't "roll away" on me.
I've never had the least bit of difficulty just rocking the bike off of the center stand. Yeah, I'm pretty tall and can tip toe the ground with it still up on the stand, but I've also just rocked it down without touching the ground with nary a problem. Maybe it's my superior physical condition, exemplary coordination and mad motorcycling skilz, but I kind'a doubt that.
Oh, and as for the slipping backwards sliding on the stand thing, try modulating the little front brake lever. Apply it during the "push-off" phase of the rocking, then release the lever to roll forward and over the high center. You'll then be ready to check that forward roll, so she doesn't "get away" from ya' when it comes off the stand. That's just a little glimpse at those mad skilz I was mentioning previously...
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