Mine was tight as hell. I do have a big compressor and impact wrenches, but I always try with the 1/2" ratchet and a hammer on delicate aluminum, and it worked like a charm on the FJR. Applying a steady force requires a ton more torque to break the drain plug loose, which is not good on an unsteady bike anyway.
As far as the crush washer, the one on the FJR is crap. And yes, it was basically fused to the drain plug on mine. Took me an hour to remove, which was better than waiting a week for a new one, but for a few bucks buying a new one (if available) is the best thing to do in such cases. I used a Honda aluminum crush washer, which is the proper kind IMO, and a perfect fit. Also replaced the final drive one, which wasn't nearly as tight. Good evening gang.
JC