Welcome, Texcom.
Sometimes, you gotta ignore some of the old fuddy duddies.
Alki is a great place to meet... lots of stuff happening, places to eat, watch thong bikinis, etc.
Usually, there is a group ride arranged by someone going to somewhere ... sometimes it's 1-3 people, sometimes 10+. We generally stop someplace to eat and shoot the breeze. Keep on eye on this sub-forum.
There are also a lot of other PNW groups that get together to ride and/or meet. PNWRiders.com and sport-touring.net are two of the biggest. There is a new riding club sponsored by Adventure Motorsports of Monroe that just formed up. Call the store and ask for Austin or Merrick for info. There are Bike Nights all over the place.... at Fuel in Seattle, Smarty Pants in Georgetown, the Backfire in Ballard, Cedarwood in the southend, etc.
Here's a major ride coming up:
Tulips
I can pretty much ride anytime. Give me a shout if you want to do some twisties or to just ride to around.