We use the hard side bags, tank bag and expandable soft tailpack. If she insists on the curling iron, figure out a way. Take a lot of breaks to let her (and you) off to stretch and work out the kinks, get the blood circulating in nether regions. Pack light pain meds for the inevitable aches and pains (I find the Excedrin Extra Strength really does it for me). Bring antihistamines for bee stings. Plan to share toothpaste, shampoo and other toiletries when possible. Stop when you're tired. Enjoy fine meals in the evening and a good adult beverage after. Take a camera because these trips make for exceptional memories. I've toured 150,000 miles and one flat, but yeah, take your flat repair kit and tire gauge. Bug removal solution and rags. Basic tools (small crescent), electrical tape, a little light stove-pipe wire, bungees and a tube of super glue (perhaps the most used emergency repair material on our tours). Of course, license, registration and ALL insurance cards, credit cards, ATM card. I take a disc lock for the machine and light cable lock which I also use to keep gear with the bike when we're off walking around (I made this myself for about $6). We like to freeze a water bottle or two before departure, then enjoy cold water all day as the ice melts. Bring light snacks such as granola or energy bars, jerky - anything that can stave off the appetite. ALL your foul weather gear, hot weather gear and stuff for in between. I like the lightweight capilene underclothes for non-bulky warmth. Personal comfort in all climes is essential. I pack three sets of gloves, each of different weight and warmth, for example. Wife and I can easily do six days worth of clothes; laundry on day six. Could push that if needed. Good athletic shoes for off the bike exploring at the end of the day. I usually bring a pint of fine spirits to pour over a few rocks after checking into the motel. Take good maps and pick up local travel literature. Call ahead to your planned stop for reservations or wing it, but we have gotten into a few jams because big events unknown to us filled destination towns and rooms. Let family or friends know you're approximate route and itinerary, but be ready, able and willing to improvise when necessary or advantageous. Let her do the sightseeing, wildlife viewing while you pay strict attention to road and hazards. Enjoy. Ride safely. Report back to us.