Well, thanks for nothing. It doesn't matter why, what's so hard about just answering my question as stated?
You threw it out there and you got some honest opinions, accept them or reject them. Once you post something it is out of your control and there is no chance of knowing where it will go. Sometimes a mod will delete an off topic comment or even shutdown a thread, but often a thread will become pretty odd. Just be happy that no one called you a name; just about everyone else on this forum has been called something akin to "peckerhead". The important thing now is what are you going to do. You can pout and leave the forum; if you do that then you and your post will be soon forgotten. Or, you can join in the fracas, give as good as you get and ultimately learn a great deal and make some good friends... including some who may have mocked your first question. Hope you decide to hang around.
Oh, and you'll find Ignacio particularly helpful... in cold and brutal sort of way.