Ok, so here's an early preliminary list of places to eat mentioned so far, in no particular order (will add to it and update it as we go):
Mattapoisette Chowder House- Mattapoisette, Ma
Alisson's Restaraunt- Kennebunkport, Me
Billy's Chowder House- Wells, Me
Bob's Clam Hut- Kittery, Me
The Clam Shack- Kennebunkport, Me
Cappy's Chowder House- Camden, Me
Captain Hutch's- Barrington, NH
The Maine Diner- Wells, Me
Island Chowder House- Bar Harbor, Me
Legal Seafood's- Boston, Ma
Brown's Lobster Pound- Seabrook, NH
Trenton Bridge Lobster Pound- Trenton, Me
Chauncy Creek Lobster Pound- Kittery Point, Me
Harraseeket Lobster- Freeport, Me
Cabbage Island Clambakes- Boothbay Harbor, Me
:construction: Still working on the list! Hit up your friends and family network and see if there are any others that stick out.
After re-reading through the posts so far, I'm kinda liking Bluejag's thought of a clambake..... maybe the last day of the little get together?? Would require a gathering place with capacity to do everything involved should we take this on ourselves, or does someone have specific knowledge of one of the aforementioned places ability to provide such a function?
If we were to host our own clambake, I'd volunteer (my wife, Shh!) to run a chase vehicle to haul much of the necessary items required, would still just need a spot to have it.
Any other thoughts?