Yes a double dose of what all have said.
Remember always stay postive when the situations get tough and that is when you are at your best.
As of now you seem to be over whelmed with all the descision making going on, to sell to buy payment . operations... get the picture. I am going to throw out some ideas for you to kick around about your operation that they do not want to pay for.
1.- Get it in writing as to why they refuse to pay
2.-Get the Doctor who recommends the operation for written support
3.-Inquire from your doctor about becomming a patient at a teaching hospital to have it done
4.-This one may sound strange and it will need a little research on your part. Ask your doctor about having the operation done in another country and submit the information and details to your insurance company to see if they wil cover it, since it will be a whole lot cheaper . Insurance companys are just starting to do thos now. This would be one way to have the procedure done.
5.-Check out the social offering the state has to help
6.-Go to the state and ask what they can do and what is available through there programs
7.-Out the country of Costa Rica ( there are a territpry of the USA and there medicine is totally free.)
8.- Go to a Shrinner Hospital and talk them about what is avaiable to help you. They are a great organization and a wealth of knowledge
9.- If nothing else claim to be an illegal may get it done for free
Hope this gets the ball rolling and lifts your spirit and you see there are other options out there it just takes work. good luck
Always keep a
it makes life so much better weekend rider