Patriot
Isabella is Lazarus
geez, don't encourage her...we're screwed now !!! :yahoo:And don't forget to give us some **** occassionally, OK?
A Note from Tyler
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fjrboomer
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Tyler we have never met but I can tell you I will be drawing inspiration from you and your fantastic efforts to overcome a real disaster. None of us can know what you are really going through unless we have experienced it ourselves. But you have definitely set the bar very high for the rest of us if we are ever faced with somethiig similar. Thank you so much for being who you are and keep up the good work. You will get there girl!
Now for more important things. Have you started farklling your wheel chair? I sure hope so because the way you are going you will not need it much longer and thus will lose the opportunity. I wonder if they make a PC III, HID's, TM's Penske shocks and all those other thing everyone adds to their FJR. Just wondering and I am sure you will let us know soon.
Now for more important things. Have you started farklling your wheel chair? I sure hope so because the way you are going you will not need it much longer and thus will lose the opportunity. I wonder if they make a PC III, HID's, TM's Penske shocks and all those other thing everyone adds to their FJR. Just wondering and I am sure you will let us know soon.
And I will be happy to pay it forward and share some of the amazing spirit gifts that have been shared with me.
OMG... that made me laugh out loud!!!
Oh hell, you were screwed before I ever showed up...
madmike2
Shtirrenuppenmeister
[SIZE=8pt]Hi, Ty![/SIZE]
It's good to see you've made "the move". It must be good for your soul, too.
Walking....all by yourself (with a walker). It's a really really good thing!
I need to schedule another visit.....
It's good to see you've made "the move". It must be good for your soul, too.
Walking....all by yourself (with a walker). It's a really really good thing!
I need to schedule another visit.....
MEM
Well-known member
My gosh, it's GREAT to have you back, TylerOh hell, you were screwed before I ever showed up...
rushes
Well-known member
:lol:Oh hell, you were screwed before I ever showed up...
I sure have missed you girl...
Kindness.
We never really know how we can touch someone's lfe with a simple act of kindness. I have been raised with the notion of kindness and I guess, for me, it just is something you do. Not something you do with any expectations. Just do. A simple smile, a quick note, giving a bit of time, reaching out with a story or experience in your life to someone, or just listening... you just never know what kind of effect that small gesture might have on someone.
I have been starting out on the CaringBridge site from the beginning as I was kinda out of it when Jaime was reading me many of the responses. I was amazed at how many people reached out, shared a story, offered support... and many of the stories were of something that I had shared with them which, again, I found to be something out of the ordinary... something you just did. And it made my heart smile that I had been able to touch someone's life that way... and in that moment, I remembered a quote that I have often told others (don't you hate it when your own words come back to haunt you?? lol)... sometimes it's a gift to receive. I have learned to accept the small things, the offers of help, the stories, the love that flows each and every day... to give that gift of acceptance and making someone else's heart smile at the ability to do something out of kindness.
One of the silver linings of this journey has been reconnecting with friends from the past and bonding more strongly with those who have been close all along. I feel so blessed to have these spirits cross my path some for longer than others but always having an impact on my life.
The past week and a half have been wonderful - Sue is a wonderful and gracious hostess and her home is lovely and I so appreciate the hospitality she has extended to me. It's amazing what a little fresh air, good food, a glass of vino, and friends can do for a girl. Oh yeah, and a trip to the hair salon!! lol It's nice to go back to the hospital for therapy appts and not be recognized or have people do double/triple takes!
Therapy has been going well... I can walk on my own accord for the most part but balance is an issue so that's what we are focusing on in PT... rebuilding the muscles, stretching, and balance... things that used to be so easy that need to be relearned.
I got to visit my own home last week with some friends... I stood in my living room, gazing at the photos and beloved knick knacks that are a part of my home and I cried at the joy of being among them again. I even climbed the stairs to my room (with backup - thanks Jane & Kim!) and laid down on my own bed... it was hard to tear myself away!!
This past Saturday was a fundraising dinner for the burn unit that I spent 2-1/2 months in. Man, talk about special people... those nurses and doctors are a breed unto themselves. It was such a special evening... I had about 64 friends, family members, and coworkers attend with me. I was awarded a courage award by the burn unit director which was a total surprise. You'll find this difficult to believe but I cried. I stood on that stage and looked at all the people in that room that were so special and a part of my healing... yes, I chose to fight but I had some damn good troops along side me. I thanked my surgical doc for not giving up on me... she said that she believed I had the potential and was glad to see that she was right! There were some picture takers at the event so you can peruse if you'd like:
https://www.southbayriders.com/forums/showthread.php?t=87019
https://www.southbayriders.com/forums/showthread.php?t=87023
https://www.southbayriders.com/forums/showthread.php?t=87042
I had a follow up with the surgical doc Monday morning and my graft surgery is scheduled for next Tuesday, Nov. 17th. I should be in the slammer, um, I mean, hospital for about a week and, if all goes as planned, I will be out by Thanksgiving. She said this will be a piece of cake compared to what I've been through already... I hope she's right again!
After having a taste of freedom, I have to be honest... I don't wanna go back to the hospital!! But I will hoist myself back in and git 'er done and then will look forward to continuing to heal, get stronger, and getting my life back on track. I can't wait to be in my own home, with my own kid, my pets, my bed, my newly remodeled bathroom (many, many thanks to the angels that have been a part of that!)... again, all those things that we tend to take for granted but I don't think I ever will again.
So my dear friends from near and far, my wish for you today is one of kindness... to yourself and to others. May it be given freely and returned tenfold. I wish you each the realization of gratitude for what and who you have in your life. I wish that if you need someone to help that you'll reach out and that if you're the person being reached out to, you'll give back. Wishing you all peace in your hearts.
Namaste,
Tyler
We never really know how we can touch someone's lfe with a simple act of kindness. I have been raised with the notion of kindness and I guess, for me, it just is something you do. Not something you do with any expectations. Just do. A simple smile, a quick note, giving a bit of time, reaching out with a story or experience in your life to someone, or just listening... you just never know what kind of effect that small gesture might have on someone.
I have been starting out on the CaringBridge site from the beginning as I was kinda out of it when Jaime was reading me many of the responses. I was amazed at how many people reached out, shared a story, offered support... and many of the stories were of something that I had shared with them which, again, I found to be something out of the ordinary... something you just did. And it made my heart smile that I had been able to touch someone's life that way... and in that moment, I remembered a quote that I have often told others (don't you hate it when your own words come back to haunt you?? lol)... sometimes it's a gift to receive. I have learned to accept the small things, the offers of help, the stories, the love that flows each and every day... to give that gift of acceptance and making someone else's heart smile at the ability to do something out of kindness.
One of the silver linings of this journey has been reconnecting with friends from the past and bonding more strongly with those who have been close all along. I feel so blessed to have these spirits cross my path some for longer than others but always having an impact on my life.
The past week and a half have been wonderful - Sue is a wonderful and gracious hostess and her home is lovely and I so appreciate the hospitality she has extended to me. It's amazing what a little fresh air, good food, a glass of vino, and friends can do for a girl. Oh yeah, and a trip to the hair salon!! lol It's nice to go back to the hospital for therapy appts and not be recognized or have people do double/triple takes!
Therapy has been going well... I can walk on my own accord for the most part but balance is an issue so that's what we are focusing on in PT... rebuilding the muscles, stretching, and balance... things that used to be so easy that need to be relearned.
I got to visit my own home last week with some friends... I stood in my living room, gazing at the photos and beloved knick knacks that are a part of my home and I cried at the joy of being among them again. I even climbed the stairs to my room (with backup - thanks Jane & Kim!) and laid down on my own bed... it was hard to tear myself away!!
This past Saturday was a fundraising dinner for the burn unit that I spent 2-1/2 months in. Man, talk about special people... those nurses and doctors are a breed unto themselves. It was such a special evening... I had about 64 friends, family members, and coworkers attend with me. I was awarded a courage award by the burn unit director which was a total surprise. You'll find this difficult to believe but I cried. I stood on that stage and looked at all the people in that room that were so special and a part of my healing... yes, I chose to fight but I had some damn good troops along side me. I thanked my surgical doc for not giving up on me... she said that she believed I had the potential and was glad to see that she was right! There were some picture takers at the event so you can peruse if you'd like:
https://www.southbayriders.com/forums/showthread.php?t=87019
https://www.southbayriders.com/forums/showthread.php?t=87023
https://www.southbayriders.com/forums/showthread.php?t=87042
I had a follow up with the surgical doc Monday morning and my graft surgery is scheduled for next Tuesday, Nov. 17th. I should be in the slammer, um, I mean, hospital for about a week and, if all goes as planned, I will be out by Thanksgiving. She said this will be a piece of cake compared to what I've been through already... I hope she's right again!
After having a taste of freedom, I have to be honest... I don't wanna go back to the hospital!! But I will hoist myself back in and git 'er done and then will look forward to continuing to heal, get stronger, and getting my life back on track. I can't wait to be in my own home, with my own kid, my pets, my bed, my newly remodeled bathroom (many, many thanks to the angels that have been a part of that!)... again, all those things that we tend to take for granted but I don't think I ever will again.
So my dear friends from near and far, my wish for you today is one of kindness... to yourself and to others. May it be given freely and returned tenfold. I wish you each the realization of gratitude for what and who you have in your life. I wish that if you need someone to help that you'll reach out and that if you're the person being reached out to, you'll give back. Wishing you all peace in your hearts.
Namaste,
Tyler
MEM
Well-known member
Tyler - you look amazing and you ARE amazing !!! :clapping:
My gosh, it's fabulous having you BACK !!!
Hugs
ME
My gosh, it's fabulous having you BACK !!!
Hugs
ME
wheatonFJR
...
Reading and looking at the photos with tears in my eyes...
I am so glad that you are such a tough, beautiful lady. I pray that these days and weeks ahead are productive for healing and fun, and that all your many family and friends get a chance to visit with you.
Much love from Wheaton, IL.
I am so glad that you are such a tough, beautiful lady. I pray that these days and weeks ahead are productive for healing and fun, and that all your many family and friends get a chance to visit with you.
Much love from Wheaton, IL.
Good story. Great **** shots. Keep going!
rogdeb
Scouser
:lol: :lol: Seriously though .............................. great **** shots !
Really seriously ... great to see you looking so radiant Tyler :clapping:
fjrboomer
Well-known member
Prior to you mishap I had only seen you in pics on your ride reports, always ATGATT. I knew you were a beautiful person on the inside but WOW! You are one hot lady! Thanks for being who you are and showing everyone how to be tough and gracious at the same time. Best wishes on the surgery next week and we will all have you in our thoghts and prayers.
BikerGeek99
Yeah, it's a concrete corn cob. So?
You're looking GREAT, Tyler! :yahoo:
Damn good to see you all vertical and stuff. :thumbsup:
Damn good to see you all vertical and stuff. :thumbsup:
SnowAviation
Well-known member
And I will be happy to pay it forward and share some of the amazing spirit gifts that have been shared with me.
Hi Tyler, I"m rather new here and don't really know you except for the threads on your
accident and recuperation. As for you "paying it forward", I'd say you already have by
being an inspiration to everyone and showing your resolve during this trying time. You
have given me the pause to look at my life and not take for granted what I have and
am able to do without thinking.
Now I think.
Thank you Tyler, and my prayers are out to you for a speedier recovery. I hope to be
privledged to meet you someday.
Ed
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Fixed it for you. I Couldn't resist the soft pitch over the plate.Now I think. Therefore I am.And I will be happy to pay it forward and share some of the amazing spirit gifts that have been shared with me.
Tyler: Ed was right, as many others are: You owe us nothing hon. I don't know you either, but you have inspired me with a get-tough attitude given with a big smile and grace. That personally has helped me see my mostly petty difficulties for what they are.
Tell ya what: keep your friends great **** shots coming, and many of us will call it even, OK? :clapping:
Deal... lurker! :lol:Tell ya what: keep your friends great **** shots coming, and many of us will call it even, OK? :clapping:
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madmike2
Shtirrenuppenmeister
YAY!!!
"Ahhhh yes, I remember it well." [SIZE=8pt]Charles Boyer...remember him?[/SIZE]
Keep up the good work, ol' buddy, ol' pal. Remember, this came to pass, not to stay. You are getting more adept and will continue to improve. Someday you'll be able to look back on these times as if they are a distant memory.
I checked the photos....yewer lukin' purdy hot, momma! It must feel great to look like a lady rather than a patient. [SIZE=8pt]Tell Shannon that I still like the purple streaks![/SIZE]
You will do this. It's just one more cloudy day to preface the glorious sunshine of complete healing.
I'm proud to be counted as one of your audience and cheer squad.
Silver Penguin
Silver Penguin
SOOOOO good to have you back Tyler. Looking good in the pictures. Wishing you well, for the upcoming graft. It's going to be a piece of cake, after all you been through. Keep healing! Before we know it, you'll be back on a bike again.
Patriot
Isabella is Lazarus
[SIZE=36pt]GO TYLER GO !!! [/SIZE] :yahoo:
bikesniffer
Well-known member
Dear Tyler
I have been following every word and report from CaringBridge to forum comments. It is simply amazing and very inspirational to see how well your recovery process has been and still is.
You look fabulous and you deserve all the applause I can muster. Wishing you continued success on the road to complete healing and a reserved seat on your favorite two wheeler.
:clapping: :clapping: :clapping:
Alfred
I have been following every word and report from CaringBridge to forum comments. It is simply amazing and very inspirational to see how well your recovery process has been and still is.
You look fabulous and you deserve all the applause I can muster. Wishing you continued success on the road to complete healing and a reserved seat on your favorite two wheeler.
:clapping: :clapping: :clapping:
Alfred
