Stephan: You should definitely come if you've never been to a FJR rally. Expect: to travel to a beautiful place, to meet a bunch of really nice folks, to see some amazingly well-farkled bikes, to get route sheets suggesting where you and like-minded others may wish to day-ride; to have a social get-together on the Friday night, to attend a banquet on Saturday night (and get a chance to help out a deserving local charity - if you wish), and if you're really lucky (like me) to make some lifelong new friends!
CFR is attended by lots of couples as well as singles - your wife will have lots of new friends to make too.
There is still time to register but not much. There are rooms available at the back-up motel, and if you are lucky maybe even a room at the Lodge due to recent cancellations - you will get the code when you register.
There are no organized rides and we discourage people from riding in large groups as they tend to cut into the fun, make it difficult at meal breaks/refuelling (small towns), and too often in large groups you find people succumbing to peer pressure/riding outside their personal comfort zone - which is no bueno! In the parking lot on Thursday evening - introduce yourself to some folks, tell us how you like/want to ride and/or what you would like to see while you are in the area. You will find others with the same plan, and there you go - instant ride group for the next day! Some other people do all their riding to and from the rally and don't want to day ride. On the rally days, they chill in the area, go to hot springs, check out museums, go hiking etc. The rally is yours to make of as you wish.
We are still finalizing details, but the schedule will be posted on the website soon, and a copy will be handed to you at registration (I hope).
I hope this is helpful. I bought my first FJR in 2004 and my wife and I attended a rally in August that year in Moscow, ID. The process outlined above is what we did. We loved it - met many great people - saw lots of new to us terrain - and made some lifelong friends, many of whom will be in Nakusp.
Jump in - the water is fine!