and yes they sit in oil all day long even if the engine is not running (that is if it's an oil bathed clutch, dry clutches aren't in oil)
This is incorrect. The clutch plates are ABOVE the top of the oil sump, even when engine is off (with engine running, oil level is much lower, as evidenced by a clear sight glass).
Want proof? Take a peek at your oil level sight glass, then at the clutch housing. Pretty obvious the latter is higher than the former. 'Wet clutch' only means clutch plates are exposed to oil, not 'bathed' in it. That's why I personally don't see the need for 'soaking', and even less as a solution to a clutch problem.
Again, I think BBQ hit the nail on the head: contamination is causing the problem. When plates are cleaned and soaked, the cleaning is most likely taking care of the problem, not the soaking. Take care.
JC