I have two friends that are handicapped qualified and one that just came off (1 has a disability, the other two are members of Team Titanium*). I asked them about how they felt RE: people parking in the hashed lines around disabled parking and the responses were a bit negative. So I don't do that, and I encourage others not to.
If it's a one way street, right at the entrance of the spot, I park with the licence plate angled back towards traffic searching for a spot (also makes it easier to get out). If it's a two way parking lot, up on the center stand, right at the entrance of the parking spot. If I think it's not going to get damaged or stolen, I'll generally park it as far away from the opening to the store as possible, where fewer people are going to be maneuvering their vehicles around for prime parking. I exercise enough that walking across the parking lot isn't going to kill me - AND it's easier to get out of the parking spot when you don't have a steady flow of traffic trying to get around you. If I see another bike parked in a spot, and they've left space, I'll park in a way that uses the space but doesn't block them.
But let's face it: the V-Strom ain't no beauty queen. More like the fugly duckling. It's not going to look any better if it kisses the tarmac, and no one's going to try to steal it while there's a shiny Kahonmazuki CBRGSXRZX1000000 around. Or if they do, they're a very sad, sad individual and probably need it more than I do.
* Titanium plates/screws/etc. in their legs from various skiing accidents.