Geezer
Parsimonious Curmudgeon
Just saw this thread.
I have to say yes, do it. My situation at home is different from yours in that my wife rides. She learned 30 years ago when we started dating. She rarely rides these days and does not share my passion for it, but she understands and rarely makes a negative comment about my riding even though it occupies a lot of the time that could be spend fixing things around the house or mowing the lawn, etc.
My oldest daughter, Danielle, saw how much I enjoyed riding and got her license a couple of years ago. She rode my old Maxim one season then asked for a bike of her own as a college graduation present. I got her a used SV650S and she loves it. She rode from NY to WV with me last spring for the Ramble and had a great time.
Danielle is an adult and has her own life these days. She still lives at home but spends most of her time at work or with her boyfriend. We still share motorcycling as a common interest and it gives us a reason to spend time together, riding, maintaining, or just talking.
For EOM, my second daughter Deena asked me if she could go. Deena is more of a 'girlie girl' and never showed much interest in motorcycles before, so it really surprised me that she wanted to go. EOM was about 800 miles from home and we stopped overnight on the way down. The ride home was a little more challenging because we needed to get home in one day. She enjoyed the entire journey, both ways, and especially enjoyed riding with me and the various folks we rode with, and socialized with, at EOM.
Deena is 21 years old now and has recently moved into her own apartment about 30 miles from me.
I would not have missed either of these experiences for anything. Being an optimist I feel like we will always be able to do it again, but realistically, a lot of things become 'once in a life time experiences' so don't pass up an opportunity.
I have to say yes, do it. My situation at home is different from yours in that my wife rides. She learned 30 years ago when we started dating. She rarely rides these days and does not share my passion for it, but she understands and rarely makes a negative comment about my riding even though it occupies a lot of the time that could be spend fixing things around the house or mowing the lawn, etc.
My oldest daughter, Danielle, saw how much I enjoyed riding and got her license a couple of years ago. She rode my old Maxim one season then asked for a bike of her own as a college graduation present. I got her a used SV650S and she loves it. She rode from NY to WV with me last spring for the Ramble and had a great time.
Danielle is an adult and has her own life these days. She still lives at home but spends most of her time at work or with her boyfriend. We still share motorcycling as a common interest and it gives us a reason to spend time together, riding, maintaining, or just talking.
For EOM, my second daughter Deena asked me if she could go. Deena is more of a 'girlie girl' and never showed much interest in motorcycles before, so it really surprised me that she wanted to go. EOM was about 800 miles from home and we stopped overnight on the way down. The ride home was a little more challenging because we needed to get home in one day. She enjoyed the entire journey, both ways, and especially enjoyed riding with me and the various folks we rode with, and socialized with, at EOM.
Deena is 21 years old now and has recently moved into her own apartment about 30 miles from me.
I would not have missed either of these experiences for anything. Being an optimist I feel like we will always be able to do it again, but realistically, a lot of things become 'once in a life time experiences' so don't pass up an opportunity.
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