One poster pointed out consideration for survivors - kids, spouse, parents, etc. Some family members have expressed great fears that we will be injured or killed while out on the bikes which, of course, is a real possibility. My wife and I have considered their sentiments and feelings so have had a discussion with them all that goes along these paraphrased lines: "We are completely cognizant of the risks inherent in moving 75 mph (never, ever faster, right?!), sometimes in traffic, with our only protection being our skills and riding gear. We accept these risks as a counterpoint to the immense pleasure we get from riding together. We will always do what we can to mitigate the risks. If, however, some day the worst were to happen, be comforted by the knowledge that we knew the risks, accepted them and, as a result, enjoyed an even more wonderful life."
I don't know if they really feel any better about our riding choice, but in the event of a tragedy, they might at least better understand our decision.
Last summer my wife and I had a little spill while adventure touring some gravel out in the boonies. We had some bumps and bruises (thank goodness for good gear) and Marilyn wound up with a broken bone in her ankle. I told her that as we were in the process of being slammed to the ground, then sliding along it with a motorcycle on our legs, I was conscious that what had happened, and the results, were my fault. I was already feeling some guilt and remorse (and fear!) as we slid to a stop. She countered: "********! You've never made me get on that bike. That is my decision and I know the risks. When are we going riding again?"
Will this actually make me better able to deal with it if something serious happened to her in a crash? I don't know and hope to never find out.