hppants
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My Father-in-law had a stroke on Saturday, and another on Sunday. He's lost any mobility on his right side. The doctors don't know why he is having the strokes, and further, he gets occasional bouts of high fever and they don't know what is causing that either. Recovery, if even possible, is months away.
The man is 70 years old - I've known him for 31 years and it's really hard to see him this way. A relatively simple man - he lives for his work. Last week, he worked over 50 hours and I have no doubt that as I type this, he is being tortured by the fact that he can't be on the job now. His slurred speech and overall pain is masking his feelings, I fear. The poor dude now wears a diaper and I can't understand a word he is saying. Pitiful, really.
Enough of my **** - get to the point, Pants.
The point is this.... we don't get to decide. As much as we think we are in control, there are some things in life that will always be well beyond our control. We all have a right to be happy. But it's up to us to exercise that right and DO what it takes. Right ******* now! No more waiting for better opportunities. No more "next time". No more "let me think about it and get back to you...." No more - nothing.
I'm 50 years old. I've earned the life I dreamed about.
You can bet that when this fat ass can't get out and ride anymore, and is forced to wear his diaper, I will have PLENTY of memories to carry me on.
Stay thirsty, my friends.....
The man is 70 years old - I've known him for 31 years and it's really hard to see him this way. A relatively simple man - he lives for his work. Last week, he worked over 50 hours and I have no doubt that as I type this, he is being tortured by the fact that he can't be on the job now. His slurred speech and overall pain is masking his feelings, I fear. The poor dude now wears a diaper and I can't understand a word he is saying. Pitiful, really.
Enough of my **** - get to the point, Pants.
The point is this.... we don't get to decide. As much as we think we are in control, there are some things in life that will always be well beyond our control. We all have a right to be happy. But it's up to us to exercise that right and DO what it takes. Right ******* now! No more waiting for better opportunities. No more "next time". No more "let me think about it and get back to you...." No more - nothing.
I'm 50 years old. I've earned the life I dreamed about.
You can bet that when this fat ass can't get out and ride anymore, and is forced to wear his diaper, I will have PLENTY of memories to carry me on.
Stay thirsty, my friends.....