I sat and analized how stupid riding for my very first time ever on the road at 10:00 at night was. I started thinking about what things did and didn't feel natural, what items I thought about as I approached each intersection, as cars passed by in the other lane, what obsticles I encountered in the road such as dead animals, 2x4s, cars sitting dead on the side, etc. I know I definetly need a lot of practice in shifting, it is not a pretty sight to say the least. When I pull in the clutch, shift and slowly let it out I guess I don't have the gas pulled back enough because it decelerates until I twist back on the throttle more. it is functional but I don't have something correct. I shouldn't be slowing down in front of traffic when I should be greatly accellerating. I don't have anywhere in my neighborhood where I can go over 2nd gear. I guess the road is the only practice option I have.
Dan---not to panic. You got back safe and sound. Remember you are riding safer now that you are scared to death than you will after a few years when you are not paying your full attention to riding. And that is what I would like to warn you about. I rode Police Bikes for 14 years. No accidents -- not an easy thing -- no brag but could have been killed many times.
Learning to "ride" the FJR will be easy. As you have found you can get around on it. Riding without an accident -- now that is a different story. In the years of police work and riding my own M/C I found the following:
1- Cagers don't see you as a threat -in otherwords you are not a simi truck that could take them out; so they will change lanes right into you or pull right out in front of you or turn left in front of you - they really don't see you. (Three most common accidents). I have investigated numerous accidents where the driver's statement was "I didn't even see him/her".
2- I never go through an intersection (even a small side street) where there is a vehicle sitting and not make sure that I can get past that vehicle before he pulls out or stop if he does. The very same thing applies to left turners. I will slow down when a cager is sitting waiting (I hope) to cut into his left turn. Your really are at his mercy at that point when you pass him; so slow down and be ready for the brakes. Remember some drivers will try to beat you and make their turn without stopping so watch for that also.
3-Learn how to "panic" stop on the bike you are riding --- when you don't have to "panic" stop. Many M/C crashes envolve cyclist who have never practiced a panic stop until there was a truck stopped (suddenly) in front of them. You may not believe this but trust me. Also you will find that your first practice panic stop (on a deserted parking lot) will take you many feet longer to get stopped than your 25th try. Put a box or cone out and when you pass the cone hit both brakes in a "panic" stop, park the bike get off and walk back to the cone. You will be surprised and that doesn't account for reaction time which will vary from 3/4 second up.
4-Yes turning a sweeper is easier than a right turn at 4 MPH. That is the "top heavy" they are talking about. This bike has the power to mess you up or it can stall if you aren't experienced. You don't have to scare yourself to practice both of these.
5-Many parking lots are all gravel or have much sand and leaves on them. Many FJR's have "tipped" in the parking lot. You probably won't get hurt but it is very expensive and embarrassing. Part of riding is stopping for lunch and a cold "NON-ALCOHOLIC" drink. Don't laugh -- many of the accident I have investigated envolved M/C riders drinking. If you do any activity that requires co-ordination and skill -- try having a couple of beers and then do the activity. Many do -- some get away with it.
6-Learn to ride with a partner in your same lane. This you will learn down the road but I woun't know you then. LOL This makes you more precise and it is very cool -- and you look really good. (Back off to single file on the curves).
7-And even though few will admit it -- don't forget to take the padlock off your front brake drum.
8-Ride like you are invisable to the cagers because you might as well be for as much attention they pay to motorcyclist -- they just don't see us.
In your post you stated you were having trouble after shifting "slowly" letting out the clutch. Don't let it out slowly. Cut the throttle and pull the clutch (or not--many don't) shift and just drop the clutch -- you are in a higher gear and you quickly learn to get back on the gas and be on your way. You are right you don't want to be slowing down when pulling out from a signal light -- those cagers will run you over because they are dialing or fiddeling on their cel phone or whatever, but we know they are in a hurry.
The final bit of advice and I doubt that you will take it -- but try anyway for your daughter --stop smoking. It is far more dangerous than the bike.
Few start with the best sport touring bike made (including and BMW) however I think you have a handle on being sucessful. M/C riding is really safer than car driving. The big difference is that there are few non-injury M/C accidents. But we can certainly out maneuver and out accelerate the cagers. Just when you feel like you got the bike figured out and you are doing pretty well on it -- is when you will be most likely to have a problem. It's hard to do, but you must pay attention to all things all the time -- and that ain't easy.
Good luck C.R. Miller