Get the bike! Only one problem. The blue ones are faster. The black ones just get dirty faster. But yours has clean bags! no boot marks yet. How cool!
I say that you shouldn't worry about a few hundred bucks. Get 'er done. Easy to say when it isn't your own checkbook, but you will likely have this bike a very long time. It is that good! Sell your VTX privately if you have the room. Mama may not like it in the short term, but she obviously cares about money. I have always viewed trade ins as a convienience cost. The dealer has to make a living and has to buy your bike for much less than he thinks he can sell it for. That is just business. You are paying him the difference for the convienince of getting rid of it. Whether he takes that money off the new bike or gives it to you on the old one doesn't matter. He has to make money to stay in business. If you can wrangle the time and space, sell it yourself. If the money doesn't matter as much as the hassle, trade it in.
I did have a hard time when I went from my Vmax to the FJR. I absolutely loved the Vmax and wanted to keep it. But realistically, the FJR was a more intelligent choice, and I didn't have room for them all. Everytime I went into the garage and hopped on the FJR, I swear my Vmax would look lonely. Moving it on to a good home was painful but ultimately the right thing to do since the FJR was getting all the riding time.
I have a 2006A and with the factory heated grips added. I like them so much I will never have a bike without heated grips again. Way nice! The Yammy ones are very pricey but I got them when the bike was new and wanted them to be part of the original purchase. If I did it now, used, I probably would go aftermarket because of the cost. I like the fact that theYammy ones don't draw much wattage at idle, and they work great once they warm up. Heated grips and gloves might be nice, but I use the grips with a few different gloves. I originally thought I would use the grips on only the coldest days, but I find I in fact use them variably through about 62 degrees or if there is dampness in the air. Hey, they are adjustable and already there, why not be comfortable?
Enjoy getting the best bike in the world. Yeah, my opinion, but I like it!
mr.paul