If this was just a dick measuring contest I'm sure I could swing with the best of them. If that was the point. I have ridden with, and work right next to guy who got real famous in the 70's as a world champion. (His last name is Baker, look it up) The guy who bought my '04 raced professonally untill he was 46. Who gives a rats ass.
I didn't buy my AE because I'm in any way physically challenged, I bought it because I like new technology, period. As far as how my AE compares to my other FJRs, the guy who bought my '04 is about 25 pounds heavier than me, and given the weight difference between the two bikes, ourselves and the slightly different gearing, what we have found is that the two bikes run dead even up to 140+ or so. YMMV.
What I have found is I love the way my AE works, especially once I really learned how to use it. Upshift, downshift, corners and straights, it's all good. Once again, YMMV. If you don't like the idea, don't buy it. I remember when I thought shaft drive and water cooling was sacriledge. If I still saw things that way, I could still buy a bike that doesn't have those things. As far as I'm concerned, anyone riding a motorcycle is a brother, why would I waste my time second guessing what makes other riders happy when it comes to their choice in rides. Again, YMMV, that's certainly everyones right.