I went to the vet yesterday for my labs rear leg thinking it may be a ACL tear, well we got bad news, Kalani has bone cancer and I don't know how long she has, we're taking it day by day and managing her pain for now and being 14 1/2 yrs old I don't want to put her through the stress of amputation or chemo. Now the hard part for us is when do we make the decision to put her down, this is the part of pet ownership I hate.
our and the local basset rescue vet of decades experience always advises
"do it one day early instead of one day late"
IMHO
once they stop functioning like a dog, it's time...my Reggie barely ate, could hardly move around, and changed from a lab to a paperweight...it was time before she fell, broke something, stopped peeing or pooing, threw a blood clot, stroked, metastasize, stopped eating, etc
I weighed the real possibility of her going into pain vs a few days or a week more with nothing that could stop the inevitable. I find it best to have a special last morning with them, and then take an extra long ride to the vet in the afternoon. Stop at a burger drive through for a cheeseburger treat.
Two of my hounds' ashes are in a beautiful box with a lock of hair provided by the nearby "Heaven's Pets". A quiet, loving, gentle last day means making a courageous decision, really for the dog to have a great last day with no memories of pain, growling, moaning, and suffering while trying to get them peace under very difficult circumstances. Believe me when I say you want that avoided that at all cost.
When you dog no longer functions as a dog...it's time to make the decision and plan a beautiful last 24 hours.
below is my Reggie's very last picture sitting in my minivan just before her last ride (to the vet)...she was 14 and they say pretty old for a lab...sweetest dog around
Wish you the best and will pray for courage