Men

[johnny80s]

I like the Snowman's idea of introducing him to your guy friends. I think we have a few Los Robustos in Canada don't we Don? We are all good size guys that don't like to see our friends bothered.

 

[rushes]

I like the Snowman's idea of introducing him to your guy friends. I think we have a few Los Robustos in Canada don't we Don? We are all good size guys that don't like to see our friends bothered.

Count in a crazy hillbilly phuck...

Gimme a few hours ta git there.... :diablo:

 

[user 6393]

Geez, 1 day at work and it's 4 pages!! *L*

ok, lemme read this schtuff..........brb!

 

[Bokerfork]

Scolding is a great one. Never miss an opportunity to rip him for everything he does. Bossing him around is another. Demand ****, not valuable, but you know: run his *** around and be very critical and unappreciative. Let him know you're dating/talking to other guys while he's running meaningless errands for you. Find out if he has an ex that he hates or an embarrassing circumstance in his past. ALWAYS raise that and make sure to get all the details; never miss a chance to find out more. Belittle him about something that you discover really makes him squirm. Or about anything he's proud of. As soon as he contacts you to start a conversation, begin to complain and don't let up. Doesn't matter about what (but make sure to include something about him), but use the first half hour of any contact to just unload. If he tries to commiserate or help, give him the "why do you have to always try to fix everything or one up what I say?!?" And be pissed about it. Go off on a crazy rant -- make sure there is NO logic to it, just do it.

DAYUMN!!!!! :blink: :blink: :blink: :blink:

exkibum.....like they need to be taught this? I thought it was in their DNA
Sincerely, BDG

 

[user 6393]

Wow, thanks for all the posts and input. You guys and gals RAWK!

I tried to post this in NEPRT, but it wouldn't let me...*L*

I guess at the root of it I have to admit I am "too Canadian". We don't like to be rude or hurt anyone's feelings. I have proven to myself time and again I'd rather put myself in a hurtful or stupid situation before I'd willingly upset anyone else! That is.....well, ********. I KNOW that, and have been working at changing that for a while now. I guess that's why I am so frustrated. It takes a lot for me to say "sorry, but I am not interested", so to have to say it repeatedly and reiterate it to the same person bugs the everloving sh#t out of me! Does he think that persistance will make him grow on me? Does he get off on rejection? Does my rejection feed a underlying depression the guy has and is attached to? All things I have considered in changing up my approach, but at the end I just end up pissed that I still deal with the date requests months after I said "no". In between requests, I have ZERO contact with him. None. I kinda figured that would be a pretty clear back up to the stated "not interested", but...*shrug*

Also, I am not a fan of "games" or lies. I have been the victim of those all too often in my past relationships - NO WAY I can do that to anyone, ever. NOT how I roll.

I guess I will spell it out, again....and add a proviso stating "please do NOT contact me again"

* * *

I will refrain from answering each post on their own...........even though I so WANT to! but man...I laughed, I had a tear or 2, I also got some real gems of advice. As I said, you guys rawk! I also want to take a sec here to thank you all for putting up with me and my posts/comments. I am a brat and a PITA, but it is all in fun...I am really a shy dork (those of you who met me at CFR can attest to that ). I know this is a bike forum, and not a dating/life advice site, but I figured who better knows 'men' than well, you men?

Now, just a couple short jabs:

A toothed ******?????????? WTF???? I mean.....really!

Tasers and pepper spray? yeah......I see why some women carry them *L*

That dating vid Russ? OMG, I think I in my 3 week stint on PlentyofFish I musta been hit on by them, and their brothers and their cousins!!! Ack! "Louie" is pretty close to said Harley dude.

Dr. Rich, thanks for scaring off OM. The PM's he's been sending were getting a tad onerous to field. Maybe now I'll get some peace

Warchild? think I always knew you were a knuckle dragger at heart! *LOL*

(and ya stole the avatar I was gonna use - figured I'd get banned for that one :thumbsup: )

PS. I met this "guy" once. Monday after CFR, on the way home. Brief 10 minute chat, in which he looked at the FJR and said, "Next time you come this way we should go for a ride. You can ride one of my Harleys". My reply was, "No thanks, I'd MUCH rather ride my bike". He looked at me like I was nuts..........

1st impressions really do stick :lol:

 

[Tyler]

Tell ya what, Barb... I'll come up and you can invite him over... when the doorbell rings, I'll open it and scream at the top of my lungs "BE GONE, SATAN!!" and smack him over the head a few times with my cane. Howzat sound?

 

[rushes]

Tell ya what, Barb... I'll come up and you can invite him over... when the doorbell rings, I'll open it and scream at the top of my lungs "BE GONE, SATAN!!" and smack him over the head a few times with my cane. Howzat sound?

Git it on video...

:lol:

 

[user 6393]

Tell ya what, Barb... I'll come up and you can invite him over... when the doorbell rings, I'll open it and scream at the top of my lungs "BE GONE, SATAN!!" and smack him over the head a few times with my cane. Howzat sound?

Git it on video...

:lol:

....................................in!!!

when can you be here sistah?

 

[Patriot]

Good for you, Barb...I repeat to the AIW all the time...I am DENSE...I cannot read your mind...spell it out in plain English...subtlety DOES NOT work here

Well I can read her mind or facial expression of "if you loved me, you'd automatically know what I want and do it"

Yeah, right :glare:

But 23 years next month, we we walked the aisle and that's when the fun began... :yahoo:

 

[Tyler]

when can you be here sistah?

Workin' on it...

I am a brat and a PITA

Btw, I think you're in good company...

 

[user 6393]

when can you be here sistah?

Workin' on it...

I am a brat and a PITA

Btw, I think you're in good company...

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Source: WestJet

When do ya want me???

 

[dcarver]

Good to see that not all men are jerks - look at how many are willing to step up and help a sistah in need here, for example.

Barb - follow your heart, woman up, don't be nice. If that don't work, follow the advice - stages 1, 2, 3 - escalate as needed, but don't hesitate to pull the legal RO trigger. My .02 (FWIW)

You're to nice a human and wonderful woman to put up with this crap.

 

[bikerskier]

You're to nice a human and wonderful woman to put up with this crap.

Now that looks like sucking up to me, pal!

Although I do agree.

 

[user 6393]

You're to nice a human and wonderful woman to put up with this crap.

Now that looks like sucking up to me, pal!

Although I do agree.

Ha! You're still waiting for the borscht in the mail...*L*

 

[MEM]

I fixed this for you, OCfjr. Sorry, I wasn't going to bite on this but my 'discretion button' is temporarily out of order. I know you mean well

Your additions are worthy Mary Ellen.

I will add, I'm not on FB so I can't see what you have posted there. However, be very careful how you present yourself on the Web. People tend to believe you're seeking companions if you work hard to present yourself as a 'catch' on your personal profiles, etc.

edited

I hope you're using the "royal you" <People tend to believe you're seeking companions if you work hard to present yourself as a 'catch' on your personal profiles, etc.> and you're not referring to me personally :blink:

 

[mattster31]

I know I usually need to tell my kids to do something 9 times (more or less........they are boys) before they do it. Perhaps that number increases relative to the age???

BTW..............NICE AVATAR!!!! HUBBA HUBBA :clapping: :clapping: :clapping: :clapping:

 

[madmike2]

Wellllll....when yer hawt...yer hawt, so yuh better learn tuh:

..........say "sorry, but I am not interested", so to have to say it repeatedly and reiterate it to the same person bugs the everloving sh#t out of me!

And then:

I guess I will spell it out, again....and add a proviso stating "please do NOT contact me again"

Since he's likely a Neanderthal, once will not be enough. It's called learning through repetition.

I am a brat and a PITA, but it is all in fun...I am really a shy dork (those of you who met me at CFR can attest to that ).

Uhm....most of us were so mesmerized we didn't notice. :blink:

PS. I met this "guy" once. Monday after CFR, on the way home. Brief 10 minute chat, in which he looked at the FJR and said, "Next time you come this way we should go for a ride. You can ride one of my Harleys". My reply was, "No thanks, I'd MUCH rather ride my bike". He looked at me like I was nuts..........

10 minutes and he had your information??????

 

[user 6393]

10 minutes and he had your information??????

all he has is my email and cell phone info, NOTHING else (thank gawd).

 

[ShinyPartsUp]

OK, I didn't have the patience to read past exskibum's treatise.

Humorous suggestion:

My suggestion: find out if he is circumcised, then tell him only 12 inches of whichever he isn't satisfies you. Say it sadly.

Serious answer:

If the usual "no's" really don't work, contact the cops because he could be delusional and possibly dangerous. Really. It's called stalking and needs to be taken seriously.

 

[7xray]

Good luck Barb. Hope you can get rid of the guy.