Jaime and Shannon,
I know we are all focused on Tyler right now, but take care of yourselves, also.
I hope the hospital there is helping you out. If not, start asking what facilities they have for you.
I sat with my wife in intensive care for 10 days, sleeping in a waiting room chair, and didn't find out for a week that there was a place to take a shower.
Some wise advice indeed, for the family. Modern thinking is realizing the benefit of family presence to a critically ill patient. The family needs to be taken care of, so that they can continue to support the patient. Shower facilities are usually available and often the use of a kitchen, so visitors can save a little $$ over buying cafeteria meals all the time.
Car parking passes can be bought more economically by the week or month, than daily (if the hospital charges for parking).
The closest family member can get a Family Leave Of Absence from work, to be at the bedside.
When Tyler comes home, she may need some DME's (durable medical equipment). Insurance will typically pay the rental for a hospital bed and wheelchair but not for a shower chair, commode, handrails etc. Do check the Internet for these. We found them at a pretty good price with nominal or free shipping.
And to the person posting the updates, great job! I work in an ICU and I know EXACTLY what you're talking about.
